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Do You Hate Cisgender People?

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Josie Beth

Hear hear! Is the motion carried?

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5 hours ago, Michelle F said:

Hate is a word I distain...


Honestly, I endeavour to not use it when ever and were ever I can..

Yes.  Its the one word I truly...        dislike. 

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