Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Good morning All. Coffees on.


KymmieL

Recommended Posts

  • Forum Moderator
4 hours ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

I got the job. I start 6/29.  
Amazing day for sure.  

Congrats ShawnaLeigh. It has been an amazing day for you.?

Link to comment
  • Replies 23.1k
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

  • Willow

    2011

  • KymmieL

    1637

  • Mmindy

    1356

  • Ivy

    1172

Top Posters In This Topic

Posted Images

Up early.  230am and just couldn’t get back to sleep as my Mind is still buzzing from yesterday’s events. I posted about it in another thread as to not junk up this one with my drivel.   
Just now getting my first mug of coffee in me then a quick shower.  Gotta keep the wound clean. 
More planning, calling, and receiving of guests who hopefully will be buying more of Shawns hobby toys.  
I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

?? Good morning Coffee is on.

The Sun is rising, birds are chirping, worms, vampires & zombies are afraid.?? ?

Link to comment
48 minutes ago, Mmindy said:

?? Good morning Coffee is on.

The Sun is rising, birds are chirping, worms, vampires & zombies are afraid.?? ?

Lmao

Omg I needed that. 
Nothing like an actual laugh or giggle to get the sprites up. TY

Link to comment

Good morning! Supposed to get up to 90 today so nice and warm. I only have a 4 day week I took Friday and Saturday off because my wife is having a procedure. I had a talk with my wife last night and I told her that if things work out this weekend I want to come out to brother in law and the people that live close to me. The physical changes haven’t started yet, but mentally I’m tired of presenting male in my personal life. She just told me you do you!

Link to comment
12 hours ago, KymmieL said:

My bike is a 2015 Harley Street Glide.

 

That's such a sweet bike Kymmie. I had a 2007 RK that I had to sell after my divorce. I sold it for $6k. I still shed a tear over that one.

 

Yesterday changed Shawna's and my lives forever. What once seemed hypothetical is now very very real! We both posted about it!

 

Have a good day!

 

Patti

Link to comment

That is a nice bike I always wanted an ultra. I had a 2006 road king but sold it for a new welder on my service truck at the time and a 50 Plymouth business coupe that I need to restore. In all honesty after working 6-7 days a week for so long I’m pretty much burnt out and by the time I get home th last thing I want to touch is a wrench. Maybe eventually I will get back to it.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Sparky The Fire Dog, purchased and rides a 2009 Ultra-Classic Firefighter Edition she has 62,248 miles on her right now, and this will be the first year I haul her to Sturgis, SD for the 80th Bike Rally. Two wheeled therapy has been one of my saving graces.

416.JPG

417.JPG

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Hi, I had a 2007 Ultra.  Rode it from the top of Virginia to Biketoberfest in Daytona and home again.  1000 miles each way.  I loved that bike such a smooth comfortable ride.

 

I had to sell it after I tore up both my shoulders.  The surgery left me with little arm strength.  They had to cut one of my biceps tendons.

 

@ShawnaLeigh congratulations on the job. I hope that gets you to @Patti Anne .

 

I expect my wife is getting quizzed by her sister in law this morning.  They are walking the beach together this morning.  I’m curious as to what she wants to know about me since they were the first people I’ve told outside of our more immediate family and medical professionals.

 

Willow

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Mindy, two wheeled therapy has worked wonders for me. We used go up to Sturgis yearly now it is just about every other year. We lived in Rapid city so that was a given. but at that time no bike. Been to the 50th and 75th so the 80th is a given. We need to meet and have a drink together.

 

Maybe get the other folks on here that ride, and have an annual TPTG ride.

 

Yesterday was one of those Mondays. Sorry Shawna and Patti Anne. So I was texting my oldest a couple questions on Hot Wheels (we are both amateur collectors) I wind up pocket dialing him. ( kinda like butt dialing) SO I talked with him for about 3 minutes. All good, no animosity from him.

After that I'm feeling pretty good. maybe 45-60 min later. My youngest comes into the store all bent out of shape. He proceeds to tell me he answered a call from the VA about my wig. He is saying this is the last straw,Etc. I get him calmed down some get the parts he needs for his project car.

Once I get home, He had chilaxed. He asked me if this was before our conversation last week. I said yes. which it was. crisis averted. He must not have told my wife because no flack from her.

 

Cooler today, upper 70s vs 84.

Have a great day all.

Hugs

Kymmie 

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator
50 minutes ago, KymmieL said:

Maybe get the other folks on here that ride, and have an annual TPTG ride.

This would be a cool event to have a meet and greet for TPTG however because of all the people coming to the Black Hills for Bike Week hotels are full and cost is at a premium. My wife and I have been going up since 2009 skipping one year for a death in the family, and she let me go one time by myself because she wanted to attend a Lucille Ball comedy convention. We normally ride with a group called "The Borrachos" its a loosely organized motorcycle group "NOT A CLUB" because the 1% ers get really mad if you call yourself a Club. It's more like the Wild Hogs kind of group.

 

Wow, bringing the family along as we quietly transition is really tricky. I'm glad you were able to work it out this time. I'm probably coming out to my wife and daughter this weekend. Since we're empty nesters, I would like to just come out to my wife for maybe a year before telling anyone else in the family, but my wife and daughter are so close and talk about everything. I think it would be good for their relationship to vent about my Transition. Of all my family members who I think will support me, my daughter is number one because of her activity already established in the LGBTQ community.

 

Best wishes,

 

Mindy???

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator
3 hours ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Omg I needed that. 

Shawna, I've always been the class clown. This is part of the reason my being in therapy has caught my wife off guard, because outwardly I'm the positive motivator with a quick response to lighten the mood or offer OldFolkAdvice. I have a whole string of #OldGuyAdvice quotes that I share with anyone who will listen or can't to get away. Since I'm coming out of the closet this week I'm going to change Guy to Folk as it is my wife's idea of non gender specific referencing Old People. My emotions have been all over the place in the last three weeks and my wife never knew or suspected that I was the Clown hiding in the darkness of fear and nightmares. Everyone here, my therapist, and my wife are really helping me deal with my ghosts, and transgender feelings.

 

I truly love every person I've come in contact with here,

 

Mindy???

Link to comment

I had a CB450K I bought in 1973. Had a lot of fun riding that bike, you know wind in your hair and bugs in your teeth, but in late ‘74 I joined a road band and needed a van to carry my kit and some place to sleep while on the road. Then came marriage and a baby carriage and a full time job and...well you get picture.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Oh, I know about the cost of Sturgis. That is  why we mostly just fo a one day up and back. However I makes for a long hard day. Plus, this girl is getting  older and can't handle it much longer. 

I know about the motorcycle world. I was at one time an associate  member of Combat Veterans  mc.

 

Kymmie 

Link to comment

Sitting down working while having my coffee and leftover supreme Sicilian pizza... I wish my job was more therapeutic. Giving people their class schedules you think, wouldn't be so bad, but people are always surprising. Never a dull moment, if not for mind numbing experience of repeating yourself like a broken record every incoming season. At least this time I don't have to be tormented in an office, now I just get tormented long distance through my email and phone, while eating my pizza and having my cup of joe, yay. And I can do it all while packing, so many benefits, if only the stress wasn't the same.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator
2 hours ago, KymmieL said:

Plus, this girl is getting  older and can't handle it much longer. 

I know about the motorcycle world. I was at one time an associate  member of Combat Veterans  mc.

KymmieL, first let me say Thank You for your service. I ride with the Indiana Patriot Guard.

Indy to The Buffalo Chip is 1,150 miles one way. We rode that for 9 years, I have the patches. This girl is getting up there in years as well and that's why we're hauling the bike and pulling a camper this year.

 

4 hours ago, Ms Maddie said:

dogs on bikes are cool...

Ms Maddie, you should see me riding in a parade in full Sparky The Dog, the kids love it but it takes a lot of work. Visibility is so restricted that you could never do it without a parade escort blocking intersection.

 

Best wishes you two,

 

Mindy???

Link to comment

My new girlfriend meeting Mika tomorrow night for the first time,she is getting excited about it.I did start dating another one before her,didn't work out as well.Too bossy and I didn't like it at all.Her,she is supportive and lets me make the decisions.Plus she loves my German accent.Her name is Vanessa and glad to have her in my life.

Link to comment

Good Morning it’s Wednesday! Nothing exciting going on here just extremely busy with work. Temps in the 90s again. Being the first hot day of the yesterday it kicked this girls butt. My tail is dragging this morning.

Link to comment

Morning all!  Getting ready for three or four day heat wave here in New Jersey.  I may actually need to use the "Blue Marble" setting spray I just purchased, to keep my makeup from melting.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

With the heat just beginning to build here, and your post Sally,  i have to remember how my vanity is almost impossible to maintain while working on the farm in the summer.  Fortunately the goats don't laugh or judge this old gal when they see her as a bald, wrinkled old sweaty thing.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Good morning everyone, the coffee:coffee: is about gone.

 

Farm Question: What do you call a cow that just had a baby?

 

 

Young Barista's response:  Decaffeinated!

 

#Joke

Love you all,

Mindy???

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Mindy, were you voted class clown when you graduated. I never knew who was voted what in my class. For all I know I could have been voted most likely to fail. or even coolest car. (don't know if there was voting for that one.

 

At least today I am not balling my eyes out, yet. My brain is going light speed. one minute then 1/2 inch a day the next. With all that is happening.

 

Forecast for 76 today. which was the same forecast for yesterday, but it was a high of 83. Just waiting for the coffee to warm up. The coffee pot usually times out before I get up.

closing today, half day tomorrow. So soon as I get off I'm heading over to the VA to get my blocker shot. Maybe new shoes for the wagon. (the current tires are dated 07)

 

Have a great day everyone. stay safe and healthy.

 

Kymmie

Link to comment

Happy Morning all.

My life keeps moving forward one day at a time.  Days are moving fast for me now.

The surgery pain is nearly gone but I am still keeping it at a slow crawl and laying low.   I still feel I have a ton to do to be ready for my move on the 22nd and being in recovery mode is driving me "nuts".  Pun intended.

Stuff from Shawn's hobbies are finally starting to sell giving @Patti Anne and myself a nice comfortable cushion for our travels and a couple month of stress free bills.  MY new company is sending me a $1500 check to assist in relocation which is sweet!

 

I'm putting in my 2 week notice today to my current job with Patti help to make sure everything reads well and professionally written.  TY honey!

I always feel crumby putting in a notice like I am letting everyone down and adding stress and burden to them.  But life happens and folks move on.  It still feels crumby.

 

Biggest news is Angela my ex wife and still roommate has offered to let Patti and I stay here for a couple days before we leave for good.  How extremely kind and generous of this women to be this way with me as her ex husband, now trans girlfriend and seeing me with my new GF Patti fully accepting her and the situation in her home.  She is an amazing women.

 

I look forward to my new adventures with Patti at my side but the sadness of what I am leaving behind is starting to set in too.

 

I hope everyone has a wonderful day.

I've got to get started doing what I can.

 

 

 

 

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   1 Member, 0 Anonymous, 94 Guests (See full list)

    • Petra Jane
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.

  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.6k
    • Total Posts
      768.2k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,020
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Tami
    Newest Member
    Tami
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Bebhar
      Bebhar
      (41 years old)
    2. caelensmom
      caelensmom
      (40 years old)
    3. Jani
      Jani
      (70 years old)
    4. Jessicapitts
      Jessicapitts
      (37 years old)
    5. klb046
      klb046
      (30 years old)
  • Posts

    • VickySGV
      We have had some real dillies come out as the initiative sort of thing, but as @Carolyn Marie said, very few make it out of the petition signing seasons.  I am not surprised at the origin site of this thing, it is probably one of only 3 regressive leaning counties we have in the state. We actually had one of these initiatives started to make it mandatory for police to shoot dead on site any Gay behaving individuals wherever they found them.  For the most part the matters are poorly written in ways to be unenforceable even if enacted.  Thus most never become law or get to the voters.
    • Carolyn Marie
      You make some good points, AYS.  But there are usually already too many ballot propositions each election, so the proponents know it's best to wrap it all up into a nice package.  Plus, it's easier for the signature gatherers.  Otherwise they have to have a separate clipboard for each proposition.  Too much paperwork, dontcha know?   This kind of proposition is a loser in CA, so the only possible way the proponents can succeed is to give it the scariest title imaginable and try to put one over on the voters before they get wise.  Bottom line; an ice cube on a hot summer sidewalk has a better chance of success.   Carolyn Marie
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Reading that article, it seems like the attorney general gets to call it whatever unless its an outright lie.  Given the nature of politics in CA, it seems like one side has the bully pulpit for sure.  Labeling it "Restricts Rights" vs "Protects Kids" is very much a matter of perspective.  Unfortunately, that matters since many voters don't bother to read.  Perhaps a better (unbiased) way to handle it would be to simply give the ballot measure a number with no title, forcing folks to read it.    I think it would have been better to handle the various issues covered by the ballot measure separately, rather than all at once.  For example, issues relating to disclosure of medical and social information to parents.  That could be its own ballot measure, rather than lumped in with everything else.  Besides, shorter and more succinct measures are more likely to be read completely. 
    • Carolyn Marie
      https://calmatters.org/education/k-12-education/2024/04/trans-youth/     Yup, the existing title sound perfectly appropriate and accurate to me, too.   Carolyn Marie
    • Adrianna Danielle
      Seen my hrt specialist this morning and nothing but good news,estrogen levels looked good.Boyfriend was with me and I admit he has been learning well about my transition showing his support.Our relationship is going great and we both see each other much happier now.
    • Abigail Genevieve
      This reminded me of an individual who, due to child sexual abuse, lived as a woman for 15 years, detransitioned and noisily insists that all trans people have his story.  His name comes up fairly often because it fits the narrative.   I don't know that anyone actually has been railroaded.  People may say it, they may look back at what happened and decide that happened.  It's a he said / she said, but it feeds a narrative that is useful for those who are already convinced that trans people are abuse victims first and foremost.  That the detransition rate is so low tells me that railroading is not actually a problem, and I regret giving the impression that I thought it was.  That so few detransition is a success story.   What is pertitent at heart is that people hear and believe all the stories out there, and the story we have to tell is not heard, because TG folk are, after all, untrustworthy in their view and unworthy of an audience.  Somehow it needs to get out there as to what the real situation is. 
    • Ashley0616
    • Ashley0616
      I'm not saying that Christianity is wrong but at the same time there were more than 30,000 changes to it. The Bible doesn't state anything against transgender. The only point that can be proven by them is that people are giving into their desire. 1 John 2:15-17 ESV "Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever." I would love to challenge them by asking who watches a movie, reads books, and listens to music that isn't Christian based because then they would be guilty as well. 1 Corinthians 10:31 ESV "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Probably not a single hand would still stand that they don't participate in everything they do gives glory to God. "
    • VickySGV
      My neighboring state got lucky a couple years ago. 
    • VickySGV
      https://www.wpath.org/soc8   I had been looking for this to respond to a member and could not find it .  Pinning it for now.
    • VickySGV
      @Abigail GenevieveSomewhere in the Forums here, we have a link to the World Professional Association for Transgender Health's Standards Of Care, now at revision 8 but it is available in plenty of places.   https://www.wpath.org/soc8.    These are the canons for the allied medical fields that deal with Trans people and are the guidance for those professionals.  I personally know members of the Association and have toyed with the idea of becoming an associate member since I am not a medical professional but because I like to keep on top of what is going on medically.  There are a number of Trans people who think they are overly oppressive as far as the gatekeeping goes, but the medical / psychological profession members who follow these guidelines for there patients WILL NOT be forcing their patients into unneeded or harmful surgery or medications.  I read my first pitiful and heart-rending  "detransitioning" story 60 years ago when I snuck a tabloid newspaper behind a comic book down at the neighborhood convenience store when I was 16 years old and reading it off the rack which should have been adult only.  I am afraid that it was the first thing I ever read that told me about Trans and Transsexual people, it would be another 30 years before I actually figured out my own story.  The story I later found out, was NOT written by a Trans person, but a well known Porn scribbler who wrote many fantastic and gory stories about what he thought Trans people were.  We are not anything like his imagination, but he was a "press agent" for Trans people of the time.  We do have some well known and noisy, negative view Detransitioners who have been found to have gone to multiple psychologists and lied their way Transitioning, one of the most infamous actually hid Dissociative Identity Disorder, right therapist wrong Identity that was being counseled.  It is a messy story.  The public, like my first encounter, was NOT getting their information from the scientific journals of the time, they were getting it from Adult Entertainment and Tabloids   We need to be careful of where we get some of our ideas from. Evidence is good that the person at the heart of this thread gets most of his information from us from the slanted and non-scientific sources most people get theirs.   OOPs, I( may have sent this off track here, but but but.    
    • Ivy
    • Ashley0616
      Yet another failed attempt. Glad to know that we are more important than education or health care to them.
    • Mmindy
      I agree with you.   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Mmindy
      Well said, and I agree @VickySGV   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...