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KymmieL

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KymmieL

Morning all, back to the daily grind. for now, closing the next three days. next weeks schedule isn't put up yet.

 

Kind of looking forward to the interview tomorrow. But I'm not gonna lie, the thought of leaving my family scares the crap out of me. I know it is my best interest. as I know I cannot be who I need to be living here. There is now way in heck I can live here and not be with my wife. Then there is leaving my sons. I still haven't had any true conversations with my oldest in 3 months.

 

Hugs to all my friends.

 

Kymmie

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Susan R

Well, I’m in the waiting room having coffee and just completed all the digital paperwork. Met lots of other people like myself. Great experience so far. Will be with him (Dr. Stiller) shortly😁

 

Susan R🌷

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RunValRun

@Susan R your excitement is palpable even through digital means 😃

 

Good luck 🤗

 

XOXO

Valerie

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Mmindy
20 hours ago, Dinaki said:

I was a offered a voucher and I need to be on stand by. 

Dinaki, I'm sorry to here your travels have been postponed.

 

Stay positive, and safe.

 

Mindy🐛🌈🦋

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Carrie

Good morning all.

Sounds like fun Susan.  I will be going into the city for the first time this year. 

Have fun

Carrie

 

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Dinaki

It's terribly hot today here in Georgia.I had to go to pick up some of my medication and trust you me, I was melting. The face mask was making my glasses fogged up, I could hardly see (poor me), sweat galore all over my face and my bras. All my no make up makeup melted and I looked at the car's window to see that my lipstick was all smeared with the mask.

So ladies, do not wear a lipstick (yes mine was also red) with a mask, not a good look if you sweat.

 

I am back home now, imprisoned in my room and enjoying my cup of tea while I read your posts.

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Willow

Good afternoon everyone 

 

today has been a relaxing busy day.  After coffee I met with a good friend and made arrangements to see him again this afternoon and he is going to help me tomorrow morning.  I am going to see about moving my boat to a less expensive marina. He manages both of them.  The upside to the one I’m leaving is I can walk to it.  Downside it on the high end of the cost and it’s right on the ICW so there is a lot of current and a lot of rough wakes.  Upside of the new one is the cost and it’s not directly on the ICW so no current and no wakes.  The down side is the entrance is shallow and I could easily run aground.  Tomorrow morning is a check to ensure I can get in and therefore out by watching the tides.  My boat has a deep keel and needs just under 6 feet of water.  My remaining alternative is to just anchor in the waterway. Up side, no cost, downside wakes and getting to and from the boat.  Oh well.  No one ever said boat ownership was free.

 

Willow

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Carrie

Hi Dinaki

As my mum said to me not so long a go ladies don't sweat or perspire we glow. 🙂

 

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Willow

I heard southern ladies glisten

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Dinaki

There you go then, Dinaki did glistened today for herself to see in the mirror. (oh well)

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Carrie

LOL

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Carrie

It is a big day for me. Going into the city in about 10 minutes.  I will be meeting with an image consultant.  Then early this afternoon will be seeing a new psychiatrist for the first time so I can start arranging for my bottom surgery hopefully sometime next year.

 

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Dinaki

Good luck Carrie

 

I think today two women are born here, one Shay and the other Carrie. Good luck sexy ladies!

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SaraAW
8 hours ago, Dinaki said:

The face mask was making my glasses fogged up

Try washing your glasses gently with some dish soap. This leaves a clear film that prevents the fogging from occurring. 

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Carrie

Thanks Dinaki

Just got back home and made myself a coffee, it is 3:40 in the afternoon.

How is everybody

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Tori M

I've had a good day, Carrie.  I just finished writing about it in my blog.  How about you?  It's after 11 here on the U.S. Pacific coast; almost time for bed.  Contemplating one more toke and a half a cigg before bed.  I'm trying to wean off the ciggs for good.  You would think if a person only smokes 5 a day, might as well quit, eh?  Not that easy; they're my friend when I need a break.  I'm pretty resolved on it now though.  Don't want to smoke and take E together.  I'm giving myself until my B-day.

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Carrie

Hi Tori

Sorry was talking to my dad to give him the news from today which was fantastic.

 

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Carrie

Hit Tori

Glad you had a good day!   I know how hard it is to stop I have smoked since primary school.  You can smoke on the medication but it is not recommended though I always have.  My doctor told me at the beginning to had half an aspirin if I was going to smoke because it would help to stop the blood from thickening too much.

I saw my psychiatrist for the first time to day and he told me I would not be seeing him again. 

While that may sound bad it was wonderful.  He wrote me a letter of support form SRS surgery.  He said many of the doctors in Thailand know him so it is a great step.  LOL I just need to find a doctor now! 🙂 🙂

With lots of love

Carrie

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Carrie

I went into the city today this picture is of my in front of the Queen Victoria Building which is in the centre of the city and is very old as you might guess from the picture.  This was just before I met with my image consultant which went terribly well. 🙂

The other picture is of my at my local chess club.

 

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Willow

Good morning 

 

getting ready to take the boat out.  Coffee is made.  Going to be hot today.  
 

The group I go to is having our monthly meeting tonight.  During the pandemic we meet via Zoom.  It allows you to see each other and talk.  
 

have a great day

 

Willow

 

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Guest

Hope everyone  had a fun and safe  4th . Hugs ❤

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KymmieL

Carrie, sounds like your trip was a good one.

 

Willow, I hope that the new marina works out well for you and your boat.

 

Tori, At 5 a day is it really worth it? When my wife quit she went cold turkey. She was about a pack a day. One day she just told me to hide her cigarettes. it has been over 30yrs. 

Well there is a slight change of plans for this weekend. Instead of my wife going to pick up my grandsons, my middle son is going to bring them here. (We think he wants to get out of the heat a little) mid 90s there low-mid 80s here. Which is good as I want to talk to him about my possible move.

 

Kymmie

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Willow

Hi, the new marina is a little tricky to get up the creek but as long as you watch the depth, it will work just fine.

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KathyLauren
57 minutes ago, Willow said:

Hi, the new marina is a little tricky to get up the creek but as long as you watch the depth, it will work just fine.

 

If you run aground, at least you're not up the creek! 😄

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SaraAW
6 hours ago, KymmieL said:

When my wife quit she went cold turkey. She was about a pack a day. One day she just told me to hide her cigarettes.

That's how I did it on my 3rd try. Tried gum and patches first. It was not easy, but almost 20 years smoke free now.

 

Hope all of you in the USA have a wonderful Independence Day!

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