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Does anybody have a recommendation for a good nail salon in the north L.A./Ventura county area?

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I'm not in your area but I would think any of the salon's you see would be accepting and take your business. 



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It has been my experience, confirmed by some of the nail salon techs I've talked to, that Vietnamese and Thai-owned salons are likely to be trans-friendly.  That's due to the large numbers of trans and LGB people in those countries, relative to population size.  It also makes business sense not to turn away any paying customers.  They just don't seem to be judgemental folks.  I've never had a bad experience.


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Thank you. I was mostly just looking for ones that are known for good work. I have never been turned away but I have been rushed out of the salon before, kind of like it was a "we will take your business but we wan't you gone asap" before. It may have just been my perception.

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