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Hey there all. I just wanted to share an experience I had today. I had my hair dyed for the first time today. I had it done at Paul Mitchell beauty school and I have to say that they did I wonderful job and the page was very reasonable. I get the basic dye for 25 bucks and it came out just like the pic on my profile. And I had it trimmed for 8 bucks. I also had my eyebrows more defined which was 10 bucks so huge total was 42 bucks. And they were very trans friendly! I just wanted to share my experience. I this helps someone that wants their hair done. Hugs all! 

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Ashlee

Sounds great! Looking forward to doing the same 😊

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Susan R

 

Just now, Susan said:

I had my hair dyed for the first time today. I had it done at Paul Mitchell beauty school and I have to say that they did I wonderful job and the page was very reasonable.

Hi Susan,  sounds like a wonderful experience!  Those prices are very reasonable too.  Can't wait until my natural hair is a bit longer so I can experience this.  I'll have to wait a few more months.

 

Susan R🌷

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VickySGV

I get my hair done every 5 weeks to close up my zipper line on top (roots) and keep dry ends under control.  It is a lot of fun being "worked on".  My stylist has an AMAB Trans sister which makes it that much more a social thing.  I do have to pay more than you paid by a bit, but it is worth it.  Paul Mitchell products are a good line with quality for the money.  My salon uses Redken products and my color is mixed from two of their dyes which does make it more expensive, but again, one of the parts I really love about being full time.

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Josie Beth

I miss going to the salon for a hair appointment. My favorite part was always the wash before anything else! Just something nice about having my hair and scalp pampered! I’m going to have to wait quite a while before doing that again. 

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Jani

I go every 5 weeks too for a color and cut.  It changes my whole outlook! 

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