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Meredith

New here but not new to this type of website/forum. Very hard to keep a friendship going on this format but willing to try again. I'm in my 60s former law enforcement officer and now teach law enforcement. Second marriage; ex had really bad control issues that excluded my total self. My wife is increasingly accepting. I am gender fluid. Some days I am much more Meredith than others. I am very girly some days and very Tom boy on others. I have come to accept and enjoy both sides. Looking for friends to talk life, and fashion, and heartbreaks and memories. Love, Meredith

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VickySGV

Welcome to the forums Meredith.  Right now we do have a nicely chatty and helpful bunch that are regulars here, so I hope you can find folks that will at least respond to posts you make.  I am in my early 70's so you are not really and oldster here, but we do have members in their teens as well. 

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SaraAW

Hi Meredith, welcome. There definitely is a great group of people here. I am fast approaching 40 and still really new on my journey of self. 

 

*hugs*

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Jani

Welcome Meredith!   Vicky is right, we are a nice group of supportive folks.  And some of us are older like you.  You're not alone in your thoughts.  Please join in.

 

Cheers, Jani

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Timber Wolf

Hi Meredith,

Welcome  to Transpulse. I'm glad you've found us.

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf 🐺🐾

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Susan

Welcome meredith. Glad you joined us. I am older as well. Hope you enjoy the company. 

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Meredith

Thanks, girls. I really appreciate your responses. I look forward to getting to know you, all.

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Susan R

Hi Meredith, welcome to our neck of the woods.  Hope to hear more about your journey thus far.  Having a supportive wife is a wonderful thing.  Looks like things are getting better for you.  Thanks for sharing.

 

Warmest Regards,

Susan R🌷

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Carolyn Marie

Welcome to the Pulse, Meredith.   Please have a look around the forums and post in whatever thread looks interesting, or start some of your own.  I look forward to hearing more from you.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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BrandiBri

Hi Meredith, I too am on of the oldsters here, maybe one of the oldest oldsters, idk. Almost 71, going on 16, he,he!

 

Hugs,

Brandi

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Sandra6sandy9sand

Hi Meredith, welcome and know that everyone here is very supportive.  I’m 74 with a very energetic 26 year old girl in side my body.  She gets to be out and play most of the time. My wife is some what tolerant of my need to be female but prefers man mode most of the time.  Take care and enjoy all the wonderful people here.

 

Hugs

 

Sandra

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Meredith

Thanks Brandbri and Sandy. Not a young girl anymore; I feel like an athletic 40ish, woman. I think. I started wearing my mom's pantyhose when I was about 13 and have had a lot of ups and downs. Apparently this is pretty normal. I pretty much accept myself, now. I wish I could have done so long ago. Love y'all, Meredith.

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