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Song for People Who Don't Feel Safe Coming Out

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Stay safe and stay alive,


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I've been listening to that since I've been questioning my identity. It helps a lot and gives me the hope to keep going and get out of my house 


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Thanks for posting this, @killjoyaiden. I just listened to it a few times and it really hit me deep. Great song!

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      Howdy! Welcome to the forum!! we welcome you with open arms and minds! Feel free to message me whenever if you ever need someone to talk to, or just need a friend
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      Salutations and welcome to quote a song I like "It's not too late It's never too late" Enjoy your stay🎵
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