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Hello everyone, my name is Leo.

I'm still trying to understand myself and where exactly I fit in. I've been crossdressing for about 3 years and have been honing my female figure during that time to fit exactly as I want it. Recently, I've gotten my figure to a point where I'm questioning if I want to keep it as just dressing or to transition and make it something more.

I mostly play games on PC for my free-time, though I also tend to write stories.

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Hi Leo,


Welcome :)


Please feel free to  join in. There is a lot of accumulated experience and friendly people here. You will learn a lot and understand yourself more. If you need advice on things plese ask, as people here may have similar experiences.



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Welcome Leo.  I was helped greatly in making a decision about a path by seeing a gender therapist.  it also helped me to share and read about the journeys others were making here.  Just knowing i wasn't alone helped greatly.





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Welcome Leo.  Please join in the conversation!  I think you'll find lots of advise and support.  If you read older posts you'll see you are not alone and hopefully you can find your own path. 



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Hi, welcome! Everyone here is nice, supportive and welcoming. It's a great place to inquire about these things. 


I love your username btw! ❤️

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Welcome Leo! Everyone here is very supportive and has good advice. I'm looking forward to getting to know you better.

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