Expectations

[BrendaOlivia]

 So today I have my first therapy session with a transgender therapist. A little nervous, however I am excited to get started. Anyone have any insights as to what to expect on my first visit? I don’t want to feel like I have to hold back any feelings and want to be completely open about who I am.

[Charlize]

Your post shows the correct attitude:

Just now, Charley Price said:

I don’t want to feel like I have to hold back any feelings and want to be completely open about who I am.

I found that simply being as open and honest about the things i hadn't been able to express with an understanding person was very helpful.

Try to relax and enjoy the journey.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

[BrendaOlivia]

Thanks.

[Ellora]

Congratulations! I felt sooo much better after being able to talk to someone! You are going to the right person to discuss your wants and needs. Just start talking, and the more you talk, the better it will feel. I was all over the place at first, but she seemed ready for it. She asked questions here and there, and let me speak and ask any question. 

This is your time, try and feel as comfortable as you can, and be open as you want to be. You should feel better the more you speak. Don’t be afraid to let loose, that’s what they are here for. 

Best wishes! ?

[Carolyn Marie]

This is the chance for you and her/him to get to know each other.  The advice you've received above is excellent.  I would just encourage you to ask questions, even routine process questions, such as:  how much will this cost; how long would you anticipate therapy to last; do you have contacts in the area for services I might need;  how many trans clients have you had and how many went on to transition, etc?  On his/her end, they will probably ask about your goals, fears, areas of confusion and doubt, etc.

 

I wish you luck!

 

Carolyn Marie

[BrendaOlivia]

 Thank you both for your words. I just got back from my therapy session  and oh my God I love him. It was the first time in my whole life I was able to talk to someone about how I feel and what I feel. I didn’t hold nothing back and felt so comfortable with him.  I can’t wait for my next session. After that session, he is sending a letter to the Doctor who will get me started on hormones. I feel like a giant weight has been lifted off of me. I am so blessed to have all of you to talk and get support from. Bless you all.

 

Charley

[Ellora]

Just now, Charley Price said:

 Thank you both for your words. I just got back from my therapy session  and oh my God I love him. It was the first time in my whole life I was able to talk to someone about how I feel and what I feel. I didn’t hold nothing back and felt so comfortable with him.  I can’t wait for my next session. After that session, he is sending a letter to the Doctor who will get me started on hormones. I feel like a giant weight has been lifted off of me. I am so blessed to have all of you to talk and get support from. Bless you all.

 

Charley

Yay!! Great news! It really isn’t a wonderful feeling. It helps a lot! 

I hope your next session goes even better, especially for the “letter!”

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[BrendaOlivia]

????!! I will keep you posted 

[Kirsten]

Awesome Charley! That’s so wonderful you have found a good therapist. ❤️

[BrendaOlivia]

Thanks Kirsten! I just scheduled my first electrolysis for my face. Getting totally excited!

[Jani]

2 hours ago, Charley Price said:

I feel like a giant weight has been lifted off of me.

This was me years ago!  What a great day it was!!   

Congratulations and enjoy the ride! 

Jani

[BrendaOlivia]

Thank you Jani for the support