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Hi, as you can tell by my username my name is Rob, or Robert. I am a trans male looking for support. I was recommended to this website by a friend on another forums website. Not much to tell about me except it is debilitating living in the closet and a family member of mine would probably harass me for discovering I am transgender due to the fact they came out way before me. I also struggle with other issues that I won't mention for privacy purposes. I like music and movies. Not much to tell about me except that I'm glad I joined this website for support and I hope it can benefit me. Thanks for reading. 

 

-- Rob 

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37 minutes ago, JustineM said:

Hi Rob! I just joined myself and already have felt very welcome and learning a lot. 

Hello Justine, that's great you feel welcome. Thanks for replying to my post. 

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Welcome Rob.  This site was important for me.  Finding that I wasn’t alone in an environment of non judgemental acceptance certainly has helped me get through rough times.

Try to relax and enjoy.

 

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Charlize

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4 minutes ago, Charlize said:

Welcome Rob.  This site was important for me.  Finding that I wasn’t alone in an environment of non judgemental acceptance certainly has helped me get through rough times.

Try to relax and enjoy.

 

Hugs

 

Charlize

Thanks for the warm welcome Charlize, (((hugs))) back. 

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Hi Rob and welcome! This forum is full of friendly, supportive folks, who helped me a lot through my trans experiences and transition. 

 

For what it's worth, I've seen a number of articles about multiple family members being transgendered. I can't help if there is a genetic factor to these 'coincidences'.

 

Also, I can't speak for you, but perhaps the family member of yours who came out inspired courage in you to realize aspects of your own identity? 

 

Again welcome. Feel at ease to post and inquire here, it's a great supportive community. 

 

❤️

~Toni

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Just now, ToniTone said:

Hi Rob and welcome! This forum is full of friendly, supportive folks, who helped me a lot through my trans experiences and transition. 

 

For what it's worth, I've seen a number of articles about multiple family members being transgendered. I can't help if there is a genetic factor to these 'coincidences'.

 

Also, I can't speak for you, but perhaps the family member of yours who came out inspired courage in you to realize aspects of your own identity? 

 

Again welcome. Feel at ease to post and inquire here, it's a great supportive community. 

 

❤️

~Toni

Hello Toni,  perhaps subconsciously it could have helped but after reading more and watching videos and movies about transgender-ism it helped me realize my identity. Thanks for the reply, it means a lot. :)

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Hi Rob,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

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24 minutes ago, Timber Wolf said:

Hi Rob,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

Hi Timber Wolf, thank you for the kind welcome. :)

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Hello Rob and welcome!  Please join in the conversation.  As to your trans family member, I wouldn't be concerned.  We are all individuals.  We live our lives and do things on our own timeline.  I sure they did as well.  

 

Cheers, Jani 

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Nice to meet you, Rob, and welcome to Trans Pulse.  I hope you find being here interesting and useful and a good place for support and friendship.  I look forward to reading more of your stuff.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Hi Rob! Welcome!

I'm pretty new here myself. Lots to read and learn here. Very good support from caring people who have very likely trod the exact same path you're on.

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7 hours ago, TammyAnne said:

Hi Rob! Welcome!

I'm pretty new here myself. Lots to read and learn here. Very good support from caring people who have very likely trod the exact same path you're on.

Welcome to the forums as well. :)

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