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Tired of the word pass


Lexi C

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As far as I am concern, PASSING or PASS is for death, freeway or when every yr on line. Why do we have to worry about passing..WE R HUMANBEINS whose first choice was not off their chosen. Forget passing...just be happy to be you and alive...the rest is just profit. Do tiger sharks worry if they will pass" OH MY GOD I LOOK LIKE A TIGER TODAY"...nope they r who they r. Be happy you had  or have the courage, the right state of mind , and the desire to be who you  real r...God Bless EVERY ONE ON THIS SITE...because u finally fig out what you want to be..lv 2 all 

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I agree. I think many of the problems we feel do go away when we cease to worry. Confidence comes with being who you are. Think of the female looking cis male or male looking cis female. Do they worry about passing or just learn to live with who they are.

 

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I'm afraid that passing seems so necessary to many because of the fear of rejection, bullying or harm.  I spent my life being told by society that feminine characteristics were shameful.  I became ashamed of myself for simply being me.

Getting past the need to pass has been a process of self acceptance and love.  The need to pass becomes less important as i go through that process.

I was never able to say it wasn't important until that became true and even today i prefer simply not having to deal or explain what i am to others.  Passing makes that easier but today i can open up much more than i ever thought possible.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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well ladies I glad you chime in. I just feel that it degrade humans not Cis. I am just tried of looking in the mirror and having me inside voice yell into my brain.."Yeah your possible." F...that the stuff, process and crap I have to go through just to feel like me...Yeah I am never going to worry about passing again. I am going to start focusing on living..GB

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