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Just another dating rant :P

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Alex C
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Hey Sorry for the last chime in..I notice that as well. I  put an add as CD I would 50 or more reply's. But when I post as straight guy very few reply's unless I post on a gay sit..However, as CD I was asking for things so creepies all responded. But Mary and Briana you  two have inspire me to continue. I know there's love out there Briana yr living proof off it. Thanks again

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Brianne

So, any luck yet?

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Alex C

no I freak out what pic to use.  don't want to say -friendly person-, more like am I real girl( not passable -holy buckets-) be a real person..I have two, but I still look like a dude..yuk20190714_203603.thumb.jpg.8dbe2523e8c3133bd986533121a46eda.jpg 20190716_210921.thumb.jpg.24ef58d1170505cbe2c628c01a51116c.jpg

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QuestioningAmber

So just some advice on taking photos I learned from professionals at a meetup. With women you can get better results with the camera Being higher and looking down. It doesn’t have to be really high, even a little bit makes a difference.

 

i would go with the second photo for the profile picture though.

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Kirsten

I definitely like the second one better, but I think you should try to wear your hair down and style it nicely. And you 100000% need to smile!! 😁. You wanna show your best positive happy face. People are more attracted to a happy person. And like amber said, a higher angle will be more flattering as well. But you look good! And I like that outfit too. 

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Alex C

thanks girls I will try to have a friend taking then next time.  

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tracy_j

I would recommend a friend taking the photos if possible. I found I take loads and pick one or two out the batch, and it is not easy composing myself with a relaxed smile when working on the photo. I assume you are using a phone so am not sure of variations of the gadgetry available, but with my camera I often use a Gorilla Pod which is useful for using in lots of places then using the timer (often stuck to the side of the fridge with its magnetic feet with me). https://joby.com/uk-en/gorillapod-guide/

 

Tracy

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Lady Ayu

This was an interesting topic!!

 

The short time I was on a dating site I'm pretty sure all I got were instapics and requests to to prove things which I pretty much just ignored.

 

You seem nice enough though, I sure hope some guy comes along and isn't too much of a butt. Hang in there lovely!!

 

~Mayumi~

 

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Lady Ayu

OMG posts while I was typing!!

 

I like the pictures Alex!! At the risk of sounding like all the men talking to the women where I work: Smile!! To me that was the only thing that was missing from these already great pictures!!

 

I'm living for that outfit in the second picture btw; so cute :3c

 

~Mayumi~

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