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This is a bit of a spin off from Marys Media Storm Post


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After reading and making a comment. I Knew somewhere i had seen something about Trans dating. I didnt want to side track the thread so i started a diffrent one.

 

MaryMarys thread here if you want to look

 

I found this.

 

 

 

Perhaps a better way to reveal your trans.

 

Seems she got more triggered by him being pan than he did about her reveal.

 

But my point is. much more tasteful and in my opnion ticking the right boxes.

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I agree that this person represents a positive image of a trans woman.  She appears to be "normal" and not just out to cause a sensation by doing something controversial.

 

It is interesting that she is surprised by the sexuality of her date.  This goes to show that a trans person can have a clearly defined sexuality of their own.

 

Robin.

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4 hours ago, MaryMary said:

 I've become incredibly efficient at detecting if someone is trans. lol

 

 

You do pick up this sense. Maybe its just you have observed mannerisms and little diffrences for so long that they just stick out like a sore thumb if something isnt right?

 

I Have on a few occasions spotted another sister. But I wouldnt ever approach them as Firstly it wouldnt be right and secondly if i ever got clocked then i would be mortified and paranoid if someone said it to me.  Therefore its there right to just get on with there lives.

 

Hey think of it as a superpower ?

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An interesting video. I am not sure how I would cope there. Those I have met after getting to know online have already learnt about me, by realising or because the time came to point it out, so an unlikely situation for me. Also, having a partner, I am not actively looking. I am still making friends though so it is relevant.

 

I also have seen other sisters occasionally but there has not been the body language for communication. I don't look, but do have a typical woman's sense of awareness so often do spot differences in body language. Apart from that I don't actively look. My lifestyle has included working with women and I must admit that even in early life I had an affinity with them so, the upshot being that I have pretty much  bipassed any tendency to actively look for other trans people. This site is really an exception for me.

 

Tracy

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While i am not in any kind of dating scene her approach seemed a good one.  He was surprised by her reality and that is obviously better expressed and discussed prior to a relationship growing.  Too often i think we let things ride in fear of being rejected and leave ourselves and others open to be hurt.  An enjoyable video.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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Funny thing is I know that resturant. Been in there once its the paternoster chop house in London. (Not when they was filming)

 

I bet they paid about £30 for that starter. Its a Packet of Doritos with a dip basically.

 

Not the cheapest place in london to be sure.

 

 

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