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    • Maid In Bedlam
      Thank you Jackie. I am lucky enough to have nails i can do myself to a reasonable standard. It wasnt always the case. I have taught myself how. But be assured my first efforts were nothing like the semi skill i have in that department.       Shawna; Awesome news on the acceptance from your nearest and dearest. Post a picture of those boots if you can. Love to see them 😊     Just a smal piece of happiness today. It is always nice when something is justified.   My voice. If you look back its one of those things i did with only the therapy of singing to Annie Lennox in the car and just working  hard to get it just right. Since perfecting it. I have never really had it questioned like talking on the phone and such like.. Yesterday i was in an online platform. I ended up talking to a woman i had never spoke to before.  Somehow the conversation got onto menopause. She contiued to ask me about how did mine go. Therefore i can just assume my voice has reached a point where it is no diffrent from any other woman in the street.   Not much. But it lovely when something happens like that and it kind of justifys the work you put in. As perfecting a voice to portray me was always very important for me to archieve.    
    • KymmieL
      Well asked my wife why she went straight to the big D. She said she married a man.   I need to let her know if I decide to continue to transition and we get a divorce. That I will be moving, I will not be able to live in the same town as she does without being married to her.  I will have to make sure that If I visit my sons and their families that it is not when she is. If it happens I probably just severe all contact with her. It will hurt too much to even see her.    I hope this makes sense to somebody as I barely does to me.   Kymmie
    • Carolyn Marie
      Welcome to Trans Pulse, Adrian.  Being here among friends is a wise thing to do, and learning everything you can will benefit you now and in the future.  Please don't hesitate to ask any questions.    HUGS   Carolyn Marie
    • Carolyn Marie
      I'm so sorry that you went through that ordeal, Debra.  That is an awful trauma for anyone to experience.  I'm glad that you got the help you needed, and reported that sexual predator and he got what he deserved.  You did all the right things, and I hope that your old roomie appreciated that you turned in that creep.    Thank you for being brave and for setting an example that others here can learn from.  You are a hero in my eyes.   (((HUGS)))   Carolyn Marie
    • Aidan5
      Heyo Adrian, Welcome to the forum man. We share a lot of the same hobbies, I think you will enjoy this platform.
    • theocecil
      Hi everyone! I'm looking for a little advice.   I've been on T for a little over a year. I just turned 24. Im in South Ga.  I have supportive friends (most of which are trans as well), I've had a couple partners in the past year (also trans), and I'm generally holding a good life together. I'm encountering an issue now that I'm having trouble turning to anyone I know about, and I'm hoping y'all can help.  I look in the mirror when I'm not wearing any clothes and I see myself, I see a man, I see someone worthy of desire. But as soon as I start to put on clothes or think about going out, I lose it. I don't feel attractive, I don't feel seen, I don't feel like myself. I pass about 80% of the time. But I've never had any of the moments my other transmasc friends have had where they've been hit on, or felt fully seen, as men. Just a hot guy at the bar kinda thing. I've always been trans first. "That's Theo, he's trans, look how cute, what a sweet boy" - but there's an unspoken 'no one will bring him home, no one will be his friend in public' type thing, chasers not included.  Anyway. I'm having trouble aligning my self with my public self. I see a man in the mirror when I'm alone - separate from the social performance of fashion, dress, and interaction. But then I go out and I stress about every nuance.I stress about holding my shoulders right, about speaking the way I should. I dress well enough, I'm hip, I'm collected enough to be attractive-adjacent  by current standards. But I'm still not seen in a way that makes life easy. I'm always on guard. I want to move with an easy thoughtlessness, but I'm hyper-aware of every moment. My depression is getting worse and it feels linked to this dysphoria.  I don't know how to exist.  I'm tired of being opted into my battles rather than choosing them.    Idk even what I'm really asking. I guess I just want to feel seen.  If anyone has any advice about encountering trouble a year into T and a few years into social transition I'd appreciate it!   Love always, Theo
    • TammyAnne
      Hi and welcome Adrian! I also enjoy singing, playing my guitar, and painting and drawing. The creative outlets help me deal with life's frustrations. Great group of supportive people here. It's a good place!
    • Jani
      Greetings Adrian and welcome to the forum.  I think you'll find many people like yourself to talk and bounce ideas off of.  Please join in.   Jani
    • Jani
      This is wonderful news Shelly!  I know you'll be please with the results as everything I'll heard about Facial Team has been very good.   Sounds like you got to tour a little around Marbella too!  Hugs, Jani 
    • TammyAnne
      Hug. Maybe something will open a path in time.
    • Ronin82
      I've actually started T while still living with my parents, and they don't know I'm trans. I've always dressed in masculine ways, had short-ish hair, and enjoyed masculine activities more than feminine ones. I've never been a girly-girl, no matter how hard my Mom tried to make me one! I was able to blame most of the "masculinity" on sensory comfort since I'm on the autism spectrum (Asperger's), but I'm mostly in the closet as a trans man. I've told two close friends, some supportive coworkers, and a couple of distant relatives, but my immediate family still doesn't know.   I told my parents that I was starting T as an unconventional treatment for some medical conditions, since I knew voice changes would happen quickly and I didn't want to freak them out too badly. It worked. I sound almost as deep as my brother, and they just don't realize what's REALLY going on! My therapist and I are making a plan for telling them the truth when I don't have to depend on them financially anymore, and I'm really looking forward to doing so, but I know it won't be a comfortable discussion. It's why I'm still closeted. I'll have to tell them right before top surgery, I'm sure, which is when I'll be socially and legally transitioning (during recovery).   All that to say, yes, I started transitioning LOOOOOOONG before I came out.
    • NB Adult
      Yeah I knew from the start that was where you were headed, it's not her though, it's you! Look at your record, and we're suppose to underwrite what you are doing? I know the others here don't have the nerve to confront this sort of thing, I do and I want you to reconsider what you are doing and ask yourself if your marriage is just another convenience for you, or were you actually serious about the vows you took and did you actually love her at all? Think about it, you don't have to be embarrassed, we will support you if you are making any kind of effort to make it work. She married you for better or for worse, she's trying to make it work in spite of everything.
    • NB Adult
      Totally with you on that!
    • ShawnaLeigh
      ...then your invited to your wife’s room for an afternoon of sex.  For hours. I’m not going to kiss n tell but it was fabulous. It was loving and special and tender  It was also mostly lesbian sex.  (-what the heck-).  Talk about giving confusing signals.   Just when she has me resolved to eventually moving out due to “not wanting to be a lesbian In our marriage ” I get an afternoon like this.   I don’t need confusion right now.  Mixed signals.  I have no idea why or if she is just trying it to see or what.   For me  It is boiling down to she does not want me if I’m going to be the true me.  Which makes me very hurt and very angry.  Spurring on my pride to just end it.  But I won’t.  Not yet.   Im not ready financially to go out on my own.   Aaashhhhhrrrgggg.  I feel trapped.  
    • ShawnaLeigh
      I’m at a tipping point where I love her dearly and our home and life.  Ours plans for retirement but I am also ready for a positive change.  To find someone who can give me what I want and need.  I am tired of being the “guy” in our marriage and she is being so nice lately as my lady friend.  I am leaning towards moving on. Even if it starts on a low note.    Sorry for hijacking your post Toni.   but thanks just the same.  ❤️
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