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Debra Michelle

Sexually assaulted by a room mate's BF

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Debra Michelle

I was sexually assaulted by a room mate's boyfriend,this was in mid 1999.My friend Julie whom I started being a room mate with had a boyfriend that wouldn't leave me alone.Had my eyes one me and I wasn't comfortable around him.He did it a few times.Once was when he was over and he touched my right breast loving it.Told me not to report it and I didn't.Second time was touching my right breast.I was at the kitchen sink getting a drink of water.Once again he warned me not to report it.Final straw was when he went up my skirt grabbing my genitilia.He laughed thinking it was funny.Julie saw something was wrong and we talked.I finally told her that her boyfriend sexually abused by her boyfriend.Her eyes lit up knowing there was something going on and I did report it.She did believe .me and was mad at him.She was shocked he had a couple sexual assault convictions on his record and a registered sex offender.Did dump him right away.I did get the help and been doing good ever since.He was found guilty of sexual assault and the judge threw the book at him giving him 25 years base on his record.

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Carolyn Marie

I'm so sorry that you went through that ordeal, Debra.  That is an awful trauma for anyone to experience.  I'm glad that you got the help you needed, and reported that sexual predator and he got what he deserved.  You did all the right things, and I hope that your old roomie appreciated that you turned in that creep. 

 

Thank you for being brave and for setting an example that others here can learn from.  You are a hero in my eyes.

 

(((HUGS)))

 

Carolyn Marie

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Debra Michelle

Julie and I are still friends,she realized something wasn't right with him.Didn't get mad at me for that.

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lauraincolumbia

Its great that you and Julie are still friends, but sorry you had to go through that.

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