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47 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

I don’t hold my wife at fault for not being a lesbian and therefore staying married to me.  She is not and will not cross that line.  She is who she is and feels and wants what she feels and wants.

I don't hold mine at fault for this either. She has told me exactly that. I really wish she was though. I'm totally attracted to her. I've fantasized about it. 

 

47 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Bella, honey, it’s not your fault.  I swear to you it’s not.  

Thank you Shawna. That's helpful to hear. 

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52 minutes ago, Belle said:

That is so true NB! I'm even guilty of expecting perfection from others. But as I've become more aware of how I fall short I've grown in my ability to offer grace. Life is so messy, and the more we try to fit it in a box the bigger the mess explodes.

Exactly!

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