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Krisvm

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Krisvm

Hi all,

 

Got my first feminine haircut today. I was a bit nervous but they were really lovely and I like the end result:

 

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Jani

Very nice!

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Charlize

Looking good gal!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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tracy_j

Nice timing for New Year parties!

 

Lovely 😊

 

Tracy

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OpenHearted

Beautiful hair and hair cut!

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Susan R

I agree, she has nice long flowing hair. It suits you beautifully.

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