Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

KymmieL

should I seek another opinion?

Recommended Posts

KymmieL

I have messaged my GYN about my self medicating possibly causing my blood clots. I am still looking to get on E. This is what I received back from her:

 

Please let Ms. Hunter know that I am grateful that she chose to share that
information with me.
In addition, please let her know that her decision to try xxxxx xxxx was
not an act of stupidity. It was an act of self care.
That being said, did the blood clots occur while on the xxxxx xxxxxx?
As she knows, the xxxx xxxx has estrogenic properties. If the blood
clot was related, then, it actually makes treatment with estrogen more of a
concern for possible recurrence.
It is so difficult, but estrogen is really not a safe option.
We're working with the national Transgender E-Consult team, but I'm happy
to send her to endocrine for additional counseling/discussion regarding estrogen
if she wishes.
 

So with this information.  Should I check into seeing an Endocrinologist for the additional information? Reminder this is all thought VA

 

thoughts comments?

 

Thanks

 

Kymmie

 

PS: I love the use of the female pronouns and the Ms.  It feels so good.

Share this post


Link to post
Carolyn Marie

Yes, Kymmie, I think you should see an endocrinologist, and the sooner the better.   If you are still self medicating, please don't stop what you are taking until you check with an endo, because suddenly stopping hormones can be just as damaging as starting to self-medicate in the first place.  I wish you luck and good health.

 

Carolyn Marie

Share this post


Link to post
KymmieL

I stopped long ago, even before coming out. I know better know. I guess hind sight is 20/20.

 

Kymmie

Share this post


Link to post
Charlize

I'm sorry you had that experience Kymmie.  I'm glad you shared it here as it helps others to understand the dangers of self medication.

Don't despair.  I have found that with careful medical care i found an HRT course that is good for me with minimum risk.  A clot for me with my heart issues would be fatal so good care is critical but in time i found it possible.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

Share this post


Link to post
Jackie C.

Absolutely you should see an endocrinologist. They're great and more importantly, can get you on E safely through the use of patches, pills or injections. Meanwhile, don't beat yourself up too much. Most, if not all of us have been desperate enough to try ANYTHING if it meant letting our inner woman into the sunlight.

 

Hugs!

Share this post


Link to post

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    No registered users viewing this page.

  • Who's Online   4 Members, 0 Anonymous, 124 Guests (See full list)

    • Jackie C.
    • A. Dillon
    • Violet_R
    • Miseria
  • Topics With Zero Replies

  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      69,756
    • Total Posts
      630,474
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      6,106
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Tristantulaine
    Newest Member
    Tristantulaine
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. KathrynJulia
      KathrynJulia
      (65 years old)
    2. Michelle 2010
      Michelle 2010
      (10 years old)
    3. Shiratori
      Shiratori
      (48 years old)
    4. woahshutitdown
      woahshutitdown
      (29 years old)
  • Posts

    • Miseria
      Salutations Tristan, as someone still on their journey I can only say take your time and explore ypurself. Step by step be they leaps or bounds, baby steps or even down to a crawl... The direction is to the truest you that you can be.
    • Miseria
      Salutations and welcome Lily, hopefully you can find some peace of mind and learn of yourself as well as others... The time to grow is now bit by bit🎵
    • Willow
      Well, I suffered for years not knowing or understanding how I felt or why.  Depression, anger and periodic “needs” involving being feminine.     When things got too bad to deal with I finally sought help.  It didn’t take long for my therapist to figure me out.  I am on hrt but no plans for gcs.     like others here, could I forget who I am?  No way.  Could I stop everything that I’ve done since ?  Not likely.  But, I am not full time.  That’s because my wife of 48 years is not happy about this but I don’t desire to let things go.  Lastly, I’m not ready to come out completely.   Could I go back to being cis, not likely.  At least not without bringing back extreme depression.
    • Jackie C.
      Salutations Tristan! Welcome to Transpulse!   We're glad you're here. I'm going to stop short of chanting, "One of Us! One of Us!" Please avail yourself of the boards and the discord server. Join in the conversation, ask questions, participate as much as you're comfortable with. I think you'll find us an understanding and supportive community of folks who have, let's face it, been there.   I look forward to getting to know you!   Hugs!
    • Tristantulaine
      Here goes!   My name is Tristan and that maybe the first time I have officially introduced myself that way.  I was born in a body that I dont recognize on so many levels and, as yet, can't fully define.  I have had people try to define me for so many years that I have no idea what I really want for myself and that is part of the problem.   I hope that here I can find friendship and support as I puzzle through the jigsaw of identity that is me.    Right now I would like to use the pronouns he/him.
    • AdriannaB
      This video,    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOOw2E_qAsE&t=49s
    • AdriannaB
      My sister Allison shown me something and it empowered me more.She was on youtube lately and found this video reminding of me.It is a Nikkie De Jager video on coming out and told her thank you for showing this to me.It was this video she shown me, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOOw2E_qAsE&t=49s
    • MetaLicious
      I know what you mean. For the last 25 years, I thought of my feminine side as a "Michelle" but she only got a couple of chances to make an entrance into the wide world.  Now that I've decided to come out, I realized I would probably need a name that didn't also belong to my cousin.  The only names that felt right were variants of Michael, possibly that 51 years of using it biasing my thinking.  I have (for now) settled on Michaela, although I prefer the spelling "Mikhaila". Ultimately, I'd rather my name be easy to spell... 
    • Cyndee
      I want to wish everyone that had a birthday today    Happy Birthday ! @KathrynJulia @Michelle 2010 Especially my good friends (ex mods) here Kathryn and Michelle    Hugs   Cynthia   
    • MaryMary
      we have to walk the line between painting a realistic picture to people who starts transition and also just being optimistic and giving hope to people. I love the model where you need to go see a gender therapist that has the job to be very real with you and tell everything about transition not being a miracle cure or something and helping people clear the confusion and on the other hand me personnaly just telling my story of things going far better then they were and not trying to put false shadows in the picture. We need the stories where things don't go too well to warn people but we also need the stories that are going well and that are giving hope. We need hope.
    • KathyLauren
      My wife and I enjoy going out together.  No one thinks anything of it, and we don't get stared at.  The only time the question of whether or not we are a couple comes up is when we are asked if we want one bill or two.   My wife was a bit weirded out about being a lesbian through no choice of her own.  She considers herself a "lesbian by marriage".  But she has no reservations about us remaining a couple.  As far as she is concerned, my transition is part of the "for better or for worse" that she signed up for.  I am not sure I could have done the same had the positions been reversed, so I consider myself very lucky.   My wife likes to be bratty.  Sometimes when we are walking down the street and she spots someone looking disapprovingly at us, she will hold my hand, just to give them something to stare at.
    • Sarahnr1
      Thank you so much i do try my best   Sadly ive lost count on how many TS /TG  that have takend this step  (ie transiton + also in some cases HRT etc...  ) to fast and then crached (incl in here as well as otherwise online ) and its therefore i try to keep this aspect alive as much as i can  and this goes  for  fore all ages  young as well as even older then me  both MTF as well as  FTM  . Its VITAL that we that have transitioned   (with or without HRT or  and  SRS )  DONT  paint up this glorius life  and  happiness  /princess  / Prince life  without also mentioning the struggle and price many have to pay. + the medical risks of this as well as of course what we have gained  of course.   And i would also like to add  reg  our situation over here from  having to high  bounderies (they were  WAY to high )  to be alowed to  start the journey they have now lowerd  to much  and  therefore  we have this  problems  with   more and more  TG`s  /TS   being alowed HRT etc... to YOUNG when they get older  they regret  there  choice .   Also i must also add that of course  there are happy cases   of  (in this case  )  FTM  that have  gone back to female  but as i said  way more that havent been happy ending                   
    • Jani
      @Sarahnr1 You wrote it clearly dear!   
    • Jani
      Welcome Lily.  I'm glad you decided to come here and that you thought it would help.  There are many kind people here to speak with and even vent every now and again, as life presents challenges.  I'm happy to hear you've been able to break through and speak to someone.  This is good.  Understandably your family knows you well and sees the change in you.  Talk to your therapist about how to address this subject with them.   All my best. Jani 
    • Sarahnr1
      I couldent agree more  nor been able to express it  better  even as i tried  WELL spoken indeed   
  • Upcoming Events

×
×
  • Create New...