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Aidan5

I just made a deal with him...

 

since I didn't give him his "Birthday kiss" I said he sould kiss me on my birthday and he made me shake his hand! Lowkey excited and nervous at the same time. I think he is just gonna keep dropping hints, because today on the bus he kept complaining about how he was single haha. He wanted to see who had bigger hands and turns out he did >:0 He put his head on my shoulder again and my heart is going to explode AAA He was really close to my face the whole bus ride so I put my hands on the sides of his face and we both turned away in awkwardness. AAAA

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A. Dillon

Listen: this is not hints, this is essentially asking you out. You should say something!! He is scheduling a kiss with you, kind of very much implying that you will be dating. Cuddling, hand holding, this all sounds like you're already dating! I think that maybe you should suggest going somewhere with him, like a date of sorts. That way you can get to know each other in a more open environment, and will really have a chance to talk about life and stuff. If your parents would let you, being able to just go to lunch with him alone or something like that would be great.

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Aidan5

oH I forgot to mention!!!
 

On the bus ride we pass by a mall and he saw a Trappers, (A sushi place) and he asked me if I wanted to go there with him, 

"That will be our first date." 

 

ANd earlier he was saying "Haha when you joke around flirting because you are afraid of being rejected"

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Aidan5

Since here soon he is going to be moving near me, we plan on hanging at the park, he made me shake on it, how cute :)

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ToniTone

It seems pretty clear he likes you. And you like him. I agree with A Dillon, y'all should just try going out! Just a casual coffee or lunch. Take it slow, you know?

 

Anyway, this is too cute! Please keep us posted 💕

 

~Toni

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Aidan5
37 minutes ago, ToniTone said:

It seems pretty clear he likes you. And you like him. I agree with A Dillon, y'all should just try going out! Just a casual coffee or lunch. Take it slow, you know?

 

Anyway, this is too cute! Please keep us posted 💕

 

~Toni

I am going to drop some hints to make sure he isn't playing with my heart. I might ask him this week or next week to have sushi like he wanted. (And it's cheap >:D) 

 

Also I will keep you all posted!

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48 minutes ago, Aidan5 said:

I am going to drop some hints to make sure he isn't playing with my heart. I might ask him this week or next week to have sushi like he wanted. (And it's cheap >:D) 

 

Also I will keep you all posted!

Two thumbs up and fingers crossed. 

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