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I don't know if this may help some but this is what I use...it is on the costly side of things though...I saved for a few years before I purchased it, however it is the best I have ever came across...I never leave home without it...

Nick

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It looks absolutely incredible, but the one disheartening thing is that you can't use it to urinate. That'd make it perfect.

I wonder why that's never been done before?

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Yes that is the only thing it doesn't do sadly... :(:(

Everything else...works perfectly...comfortable for everyday and everynight wear...

I tried everything else...all the tips and tricks...but this one rocked my world, and everyone I dated. (smiling) ;)

Nick~

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Yes that is the only thing it doesn't do sadly... :(:(

Everything else...works perfectly...comfortable for everyday and everynight wear...

I tried everything else...all the tips and tricks...but this one rocked my world, and everyone I dated. (smiling) ;)

Nick~

Well, I don't really need the sexual part 'cause I don't have a partner... *sigh* And standing while urinating is too big of a deal to me to sacrifice on. I wonder if there would be a way to integrate it? Probably not, but... hmn.

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I personally have never packed and I doubt I ever will.. Although a bulge could be a nice presence I do not need it to feel secure and feel for me it would be more a hastle then anything else.

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Questioning guys about its purpose only got me the replies like, "To keep your cherries from getting knocked off!" and "Gotta protect the family jewels!", always as if the answer was obvious. There was clearly some kind of Duh factor going on there I just wasn't getting. I mean, I got it… but I didn't.

heres the answer if your testicles get smushed or a little more presure than its used too.... then..... OOOOOWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!

basically so you dont injure yourself (as they are a vital reproductive organ).

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I don't know if this may help some but this is what I use...it is on the costly side of things though...I saved for a few years before I purchased it, however it is the best I have ever came across...I never leave home without it...

Nick

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Oh my..I clicked on that link and I fell in love. It's a shame it costs so much, though. I'm going to have to get a job just to get one...

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Oh my..I clicked on that link and I fell in love. It's a shame it costs so much, though. I'm going to have to get a job just to get one...

Yeah, them ones look a lot more realistic than the ones from mango. But I still would go with the mango, because I really like to urinate standing up. I really don't think I could go back to sitting again, and also you really don't want to have to sit down in the mens toilets! :P

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Yeah, them ones look a lot more realistic than the ones from mango. But I still would go with the mango, because I really like to urinate standing up. I really don't think I could go back to sitting again, and also you really don't want to have to sit down in the mens toilets! :P

Lawl, indeed...

I suppose one could alternate between the two. :/ Still...

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I personally have never packed and I doubt I ever will.. Although a bulge could be a nice presence I do not need it to feel secure and feel for me it would be more a hastle then anything else.

I don't mind admitting that for me it is completely about security, as well as the standing to urinate thing. I think being a transman, and a gay transman at that, makes you even more boy thing obsessed than the average person. It's the same thing as when straight guys can't keep their eyes off of women's chests. I can't keep my eyes off of mans crotch. Very pervy I know. :P So the same way I check guys out with my female friends, (yes they do it too) I like to think that if they check me out they won't be disappointed. The one guy I really fancy I know has a big boy thing, and we all constantly check him out, and he wears quite tight trousers, so he obviously wants to make a point of it. It's so insecurity, and I copy this behaviour. I like to wear quite tight trousers, and go for the larger option when packing. It just makes me feel better about myself. Sad I know!

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I don't mind admitting that for me it is completely about security, as well as the standing to urinate thing. I think being a transman, and a gay transman at that, makes you even more boy thing obsessed than the average person. It's the same thing as when straight guys can't keep their eyes off of women's chests. I can't keep my eyes off of mans crotch. Very pervy I know. :P So the same way I check guys out with my female friends, (yes they do it too) I like to think that if they check me out they won't be disappointed. The one guy I really fancy I know has a big boy thing, and we all constantly check him out, and he wears quite tight trousers, so he obviously wants to make a point of it. It's so insecurity, and I copy this behaviour. I like to wear quite tight trousers, and go for the larger option when packing. It just makes me feel better about myself. Sad I know!

i think of myself as straight but occaisionally check guys out that way not because i'm attracted to them but just because i want to see how i would mesure up. i also go for the larger option when packing so that maybe i will be seen as above average in that department. even i feel ashamed of myself when i do that but it's nice to know that i'm not alone.

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i think of myself as straight but occaisionally check guys out that way not because i'm attracted to them but just because i want to see how i would mesure up. i also go for the larger option when packing so that maybe i will be seen as above average in that department. even i feel ashamed of myself when i do that but it's nice to know that i'm not alone.

The funny thing is that women love it, even though they know it isn't real. :P My female friends are often impressed!

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That is a very nice packer Nick, however definitely a bit to pricey for me, also I want the ability to be able to pee standing up. Alot of the reason that I want to pack is because I feel like I am missing something down there right now. And I would feel more complete if I was packing.

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I was wondering from those guys who are out, what was the reaction from your friend, signifcant other when you packed for the first time?

I am scared about the reactions i will get if i try packing... espically from my girlfriend who identfies as a lesbian. Guys got any advice?

Another question do you pack for yourself to have something down there or for the outward apperance to be a man?

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Well for me...the first time I decided to pack...my girlfriend who is a lesbian freaked out...would not have anything to do with such. Other girlfriends came and went but most of them was pretty accepting of it all for a little while...however in the end they always claim thier lesbian side and do not wish to have a packer...I myself found it difficult in dating till recently. The one I am dating now is considered "straight" and talking is important and trust is the key.

I pack for myself...I feel as though the "pack" is part of me and who I am...and not for just the apperance of it all. I feel empty if I do not pack...

I recommend talking to your girlfriend to see how she feels about it all...you will be surprised how well things can be discussed once you begin talking.

Nick~

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