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Carolyn Marie

Study Looks At Needs of Transgender Seniors

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I'd like to read this study.  It could be a very valuable resource.  There are so many of us senior trans folk now.  I've always been concerned about access to things like accepting and supportive long term care and housing.  In California there are pretty good laws on the books, but elsewhere, not the case.


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      Love this answer. Best reply of the day...so on point!  Thanks Jackie!   @Wes..its always ok to vent here...we love reading about your good times and bad....we don’t discriminate.   Susan R🌷
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      No problem with venting here, Wes.  These forums are perfect for that.  Your parents will probably come around after they have gotten used to your new name.  Be patient; I think it will work out all right.   Carolyn Marie
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