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Caramason1971

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Caramason1971

Hi I have a couple of bardot tops I would love to wear them but my bra straps are on show and with summer coming up I want some summer dresses what type of bra do I need I am a 48b

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There are strapless bras available but you do have to look for them.  For a B cup, there are nipple covers also known as pasties or petals that adhere to you skin and keep the nipple from poking through the fabric. I have both and am a 46B.  The strapless bra's are a bit tighter in the band area and probably have underwires or boning.

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Sally Stone

Cara,

 

Showing a little bra strap isn't necessarily a bad thing.  If you notice, lots of women let their bra straps show, and I believe it is actually a fashion thing.  Obviously, it might not be appropriate for all occasions, but generally, a little bra strap shows off your edgier side.  Go with it!

 

Hugs,

 

Sally

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Caramason1971

yes i have noticed lots of ladies showing there bra straps so i am going to give it a try i have some cami tops to wear 

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