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Hi All,

Not sure if this is the right place, but I was listening to NPRs Only A Game (sports stories for non-sports fans).  They had an interesting story about Sam Khandaghabadi.  The first transgender professional wrestler.  Its a pretty interesting story.  Other than the professional wrestling part, I'm sure we can all identify with Sam.

https://www.wbur.org/onlyagame/2020/05/29/sam-khandaghabadi-hoodslam-wrestling-transgender

 

 

 

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