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Patti Anne

Well, Shawna and I had some crazy things happen today. The Good news is she's not coming to Oregon to visit. The other good news is it sounds like she was offered a job today about 15 minutes away from our house. It's a government contract and they want her to start yesterday. So, needless to say, things are moving along really really rapidly. It's looking more like I'm going to fly to Vermont and we'll both drive back with a truck loaded with her things. She was talking about driving alone, but there's NO WAY I'm letting her drive X/C by herself. We'll drive together, Thelma and Louise style.


So, as things firm up, we'll repost with progress notes.


Update: She just texted me and she's definitely been hired! They want her here on 6/29! 


PA and SL

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Patti Anne

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Carolyn Marie

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Jackie C.
54 minutes ago, Patti Anne said:

We'll drive together, Thelma and Louise style.


Be wary of cliffs. 😋


Congratulations for the both of you! This is a big step and I wish you nothing but luck and happiness!



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Emily michelle

Congrats that’s awesome. I’m glad you two will be together sooner than later.

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Yes the phone interview went well to say the least.  It helps being a veteran when your being hired by a disabled vet owner and everyone in the company is a vet as well.  His bread a butter is government contracts and hiring me evaluates his companies status to include LBGT compliant too.  I just got a $15K per year raise same vacation and a much shorter commute time to work.

The timing is a bit overwhelming and I am feeling a ton of nervous anxiety this morning as I am truly not all wrapped up in VT, but I have always seized opportunity when it is presented so I had to jump.  I'm thankful to @Patti Anne and all her support and love and I am very excited that our life together is starting sooner then later.

Also a big shout out to our newest friend @Tori M who lives fairly close to us in Oregon and is excited for us to get back there.  Its nice to have a new friend in place when moving across country.  

Though honestly I have no intentions of driving my stuff off a cliff so.......  No to Thelma and Louise!


More to come shortly.


I have a phone therapy session in a few minutes so I have to close for now.


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38 minutes ago, ShawnaLeigh said:

Yes the phone interview went well to say the least.

Congratulations Shawna,


I'm so happy for you and @Patti Anne





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Tori M

Wow, what great news!  A great new job, a "new" household in Oregon and an easy cruise (not, lol) across the country.  It will be a busy busy month for you two, but so wonderful you don't have to wait longer to be together.  Am so happy for you!


We paid movers to bring our family out here from VA, but we drove our vehicles and an RV which housed all our pets at the time (3 dogs, 2 birds, 1 cat and a rabbit).  We took it slow, driving about 7-8 hours a day (plus one breakdown day).  It took us 9 days!  The November headwinds in WY had that RV down to 40 mph climbing the Rockies.  I'll never forget that expedition.  Saw some beautiful landscapes that I want to visit with some time to explore someday.


Now don't you two be blowing up any gasoline tankers along the way! lol



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Congratulations, @ShawnaLeigh on the new job!  And good luck to the both of you.  It is exciting!

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