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Just like to say hello to everyone, I don’t mean to be rude and troll in on occasion as I have. Looking for motivation and resources to srart moving in a positive direction. Honestly I know most here understand how difficult it can be in the beginning and the paralyzing fear that keeps many individuals silent. For me growing up in the late 60 and 70 the world was not a safe place, not to say some brave souls stuck their neck out, many were likely to have you head cut off. No pun intended. Till recently my exhausting search for the reasons for my fear seemed elusive and Wiley but a lovely lady on a blog pointed out trans phobia. It was like a light going off as it hit on every reason I experienced. I don’t want to ramble on just breaking ice so to speak. ;) very rarely can I only say one word and I hope you are not thinking geez I liked you better when you said nothing. hehe  . Thank you all love as always ✌️

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Hi, Vickie.  Welcome!

 

Regards,

Kathy

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Welcome Vickie to the forums :)

 

Have a look around, and join in the conversations.

 

I hope you find our forums useful and enjoyable.

 

Post away as the mood strikes ya

 

Hugs

 

Cyndee

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Hi Vickie,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Vickie.  I hope you get all that you need from this site, and find friends and useful information.  You're right that fear keeps many silent and isolated and afraid to move forward.  Overcoming those fears takes time.  You've taken a good step in a positive direction.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Merci beaucoup all , I certainly appreciate the warm welcome. I am so up in the air right now , like confetti ,,it’s all good. I am blessed with a very understanding and supportive family  and friends who have no idea which end is up but that’s cool neither do I at this point. I know I spotted a place for art here on a different note , I have a few wonderful pieces and a book I just finished writing. Not going to digress from the reason for being here and that is  to learn more about  you’re  experiences and finding the right therapist. Love as always ✌️?

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13 hours ago, Vickie said:

Not going to digress from the reason for being here and that is  to learn more about  you’re  experiences and finding the right therapist. Love as always ✌️?

Good morning and welcome Vickie,

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and safe.

 

Mindy???

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