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Tess1968

Hoping to find support as I begin to accept myself. 

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Jani

Hello Tess and welcome!  You'll find the support you desire here.  Lots of kind and friendly people.  Please jump in and join the conversation.  

 

Cheers, 
Jani

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Cyndee

Welcome Tess to trans pulse forums :) Have a look around, and do post away as the mood strikes ya

 

Hugs

 

Cyndee

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Carolyn Marie

Welcome to Trans Pulse, Tess.  I can tell that you're a bit shy, but if and when you feel like telling us a little more about yourself, we'll be here for you.  Like my friend Cyndee said, please look around and ask lots of questions.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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Susan R

Hi @Tess1968...nice to have you onboard. With some effort and time, you’ll find the support you need and maybe a few friends along the way.


Warmest Regards,

Susan R🌷

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SaraAW

Hi Tess! I can say from experience, you have found a very supportive and safe space to explore who you are and find acceptance. Happy you found us. Hugs!

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Timber Wolf

Hi Tess,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf 🐾

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KayC

Hi Tess! and Welcome!
From reading your About Me page I see we have some commonality in our experiences and issues with our spouses.

 

You're not alone, so I hope you can find great experiences and advice on these Forum pages.  I have found them extremely helpful just over a few months. 

Deep breaths .. One step at a time❣️

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ElizabethStar

Hi Tess,

Welcome. This place is amazing. I've only been here a few weeks myself. Everyone here has been so nice and helpful.

 

💖~Liz~

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Charlotte Sparkle

Hi Tess, welcome to the TransPulse Forums from me.  I'm new here too.

 

Lotte x

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Mmindy

Welcome @Tess1968 you're among like people here,. A safe non judgmental forum that is filled with caring advice and open hearts. 

 

Best wishes, stay positive, and safe, 

 

Mindy🐛🌈🦋

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Erikka

Velkommen Tess

glad you are here. This is good place for support, informations and help to figure out who you are.

velsignelser

Erikka

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