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ThatDarnDodo

Howdy, my name's Sasha, I'm twenty-six and from South Africa. My pronouns are they/them and he/him. My hobbies include video games, drawing, studying Japanese and lying on the floor waiting for the void to swallow me whole. I also love a bit of writing and am trying to make a career out of writing from home and publishing short stories online. It's hardly a mega money maker but thanks to a mixture of anxiety and depression, having a normal office job or working in retail is out of the question (believe me, I've tried). 

 

I joined this site in hopes of meeting more trans folks to talk video games and general nonsense with.  Lockdown has me lonely. I've forgotten what outside looks like. 

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Jackie C.

Hey Sasha! Welcome to Transpulse!

 

The void never seems to swallow you up when you want it to, does it? That's the problem with voids: They're unreliable. I write, animate and play video games myself so we've got that in common too.

 

I hope you find what you're looking for here! We're happy to have you!

 

Hugs!

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ThatDarnDodo

Thanks for the welcome, Jackie. This seems like a pretty great community so far. 

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Carolyn Marie

Welcome to Trans Pulse, Sasha.  I won't be much fun to talk video games with, but I can manage some General Nonsense.  ?  Please look around and post where you like, and if you have questions, we're good for that, too.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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MaryMary

Hi, I'm an expert at both talking nonsense and video games. I can do both of these for an infinite amount of time so my guess is that you are at the right place. Welcome, it's a pleasure meeting you virutally :)

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MaryMary

oh and I can even talk nonsense about video games thus combining the two together.

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Hi Sasha!  nice to meet you and Welcome!

I think you will find this a great Forum to be a great meeting place for others like you.  Wish I could help you with your Japanese but my skills are very limited ?


Welcome again❣️

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Alexxiss

Hi Sasha,

I’m also new! Welcome to the site. I’ve been playing Planet Coaster like crazy! I hope this site  is as useful to you as it’s been for me.

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Timber Wolf

Hi Sasha,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ?

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ThatDarnDodo

Thanks for such a warm welcome, everyone. Pretty sure I live here now. 

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Oh! When you said you were new too, you really weren’t kidding!!! The similarities between us continue, as my main sources of income at the moment are short story commissions and Japanese to English translation. If you ever want a study buddy hmu. I’m out of practice conversation-wise so it would be good for me too. :3 

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