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  2. awkward-yet-sweet

    Mississippi Just Got Worse!

    For that part, be glad you live in MS and not in CA or some other "paradise." Unfortunately, right now in the USA it is about choices. Choose to live in a mostly free state that doesn't want my gender to exist, or choose to live in a leftist place that accepts my gender but not my family or my faith, or how I want to live my life or the stuff I own. As for the lawsuits... hiring a lawyer costs money. And a "no fees unless you win" attorney probably won't take a case like this, as it is difficult to get money from folks who often don't have anything. As they say, "it is hard to get blood from a turnip."
  3. awkward-yet-sweet

    What do you think is the biggest block to LGBTQ+ acceptance?

    There's a couple of things. First, since so many LGBTQ+ folks often vote Democrat, it is simply assumed that "LGBTQ = Democrat." And to many, Democrat = enemy. The fact that some of us don't vote for Democrats comes as a surprise to many. You wouldn't believe how many different times I have had to explain how I vote, that I don't like Biden, etc... And then, there's the flamboyant, over-the-top appearance and behavior of some. When average folks see strange dress, wild colors, and the occasional provocative behavior in the news, they assume that it is the norm and that all LGBTQ+ folks are like that. To them, "LGBTQ = weird." I think that @Abigail Genevieve is right, part of it is lousy marketing. And that will take a ton of undoing, because it has been going on for years.
  4. awkward-yet-sweet

    Voting for Trump

    Personally, I despise the antics of the "swing" states. Double-minded and unstable, shifting every time the wind blows. OK, so the Lt Governor of Georgia doesn't like Trump. Small potatoes.... given the 2020 results, nobody counts on Georgia anyways.
  5. Xenophobia -- fear of the foreign nature of something.
  6. awkward-yet-sweet

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Its midnight here...so, technically morning I had a really weird evening, and learned something new about politics. My sister, who is running for public office as our township constable, received a "present" today, left on the hood of her patrol car. An axe! Wrapped in a bundle of sticks (dowels?). The sheriff received one also, and a couple other candidates. Now, my first thought was it was meant as a threat, and I was freaked out when she told me. But she wisely identified it as political criticism: During the 2020 election, a small dissident minority objected to our sheriff, and labeled him "Mussolini." Apparently the symbol of the F@scist Party came from ancient Rome. An axe, circled with rods, and the whole bundle was called "fasces" and represented the authority of the state. Roman officials would have them symbolically carried ahead of them through the city on parade. Other nations used it too, including the USA. But since the 1920s, it is mostly associated with a certain political party. Either I was never taught this in high school, or I didn't notice it. So, it appears that this election season will have some interesting aspects. And I have been asked to put gold spray paint on an axe, to make it like a trophy.
  7. KayC

    Vivelacors...

    Welcome @Vivelacors! For myself and many others here it is a similar theme. But, I can assure it's never too late. I hope that you will discover that as you explore and connect with more of us on the Forum. You've already taken the most important first step ... Self-Affirmation. I am wishing you the best in continuing this process. Deep breaths ... One step at a time
  8. phys

    Scared of going to church if I come out

    I can remember as a teenager being a member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints and living in the bible belt. It was always a little hard-I think religion is just tricky anyway. I was referred to a couple of ladies at church by my mum who gave me very good advice. One has known those who are are trans- and how they approched it. The other has two people in their life who identify differently. They also gave other ideas to assist me. I do like ideas though.
  9. KayC

    Do you use make-up? If so, why and what types?

    If I am leaving the house I will almost always do makeup. Not over-the-top but enough to feminize my face (eye shadow, mascara), lipstick, and a light cover of a concealer and foundation. I found my favorite lipsticks are Maybelline. But the concealer/foundation I 'discovered' in Neutrogena Hydro Boost - Hyaluronic Acid based. For 'older' gals like me I find it moisturizes and doesn't dry into those annoying fine lines (I have enough of those already). Hopefully, after facial hair removal I might not feel the need as much.
  10. I think it just comes down to a lot of people not knowing anything about the lgbtq+ community besides what reactionaries online and on TV say. In my experience, people who have a lot more day-to-day contact with gay and trans people, have lgbtq+ friends or family, coworkers, etc. are a lot more accepting because they know an lgbtq+ person, and know that we aren't anything like what the people on TV say we are.
  11. Davie

    Voting for Trump

    "A prominent Republican in a swing state just announced he’s backing Biden! This unexpected endorsement and brutal rebuke of Donald is a sign his support is waning." —MARY L. TRUMP
  12. April Marie

    Vivelacors...

    Welcome! We are so glad you found us! Actually, you’ll find quite a few of us here who embraced their reality quote late in life. None of us know how much time we have, but we can enjoy the time that we do. Celebrate! Join in in where you feel comfortable.
  13. VickySGV

    Mississippi Just Got Worse!

    Actually the bill seems to be so thoroughly confusing that I doubt that enforcement is even possible. It could however incite vigilante style actions. A false accusation against a "looks challenged" Cis woman is very likely to happen early on. So what will happen in the case of those situations? I have a script in mind over the sad average looking daughter of one of the legislators getting tangled into one of those situations. I don't know whether it would be a comedy or a tragedy at the minute.
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  15. Ashley0616

    Mississippi Just Got Worse!

    Time to bring a self defense weapon. Looking forward to having a gun on my side.
  16. Ashley0616

    Mississippi Just Got Worse!

    https://open.substack.com/pub/erininthemorn/p/mississippi-passes-bill-allowing?r=35q61e&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=email
  17. I don't know yet. I'm sure there is going to be a big crowd. I also would have to keep up with the kids and probably won't enjoy myself mostly.
  18. Ashley0616

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    I can understand that. My Keurig is used for hot water mostly and when my mom comes. I mostly use a regular coffee maker. I have had that for 5 years now. I had a Bunn but it didn't last long. I also have a French press and rarely use that. I would love to get a cappuccino maker but that is for later on. Starbucks is getting expensive. My kids favorite thing there is the cake pops. I found out that Walmart Neighborhood Market has them. Typical me getting off topic. lol
  19. Vivelacors

    Vivelacors...

    After many years in denial, I have finally acknowledged my femininity. After quite a long life, so much time has been wasted. Now I feel I am too old to enjoy the freedom I now feel. All I can contribute to those who need to embrace their true gender, be BRAVE and don,t waste time!
  20. Ivy

    Florida’s governor signs bill to expand HIV care

    Guess we have to take what we get.
  21. Ivy

    The Inevitably Awkward Intro

    Well, welcome M.A. Several of my now grown kids were involved in theater in school. And one is now a graphic designer.
  22. Willow

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Wow what a busy day today. Clearly the summer crowd is coming into town. Doesn’t hurt that we have a PGA event here. It is limited to 100 players. But the spectators is where the crowd is. i alone more than doubled my usual sales. we keep hearing thunderstorms however they are staying just west of us for now. The storms in western Tennessee right now are supposed to be here in the morning.
  23. Vidanjali

    Australian nonbinary singer/songwriter, G Flip

    Edit: Latest album is called "Drumless". My bad. The name of their tour is Drummer.
  24. My gen z cousin & her gf were visiting the last few days. We are a very, very small contingent of queer members of our family & we stick together. She and her gf introduced me to G Flip. They recently attended a concert and said it was the best concert ever. They were playing G Flip in the car and I was impressed by the vocals, the lyrics, the influences, and the percussion (G is also a drummer). I love a nonbinary vocalist (not that we get to hear so many...yet...) because the freedom from gender performance shines forth. I could hear influences from many styles of music I loved in the 90s, but all blended together in a joyfully percussive way. G Flip is rad! I would post a link to some tracks or an album, but there are explicit lyrics which would go against community rules - you can easily search youtube yourself if you're interested; their latest album is called "Drummer". But here is a picture of G who is serving us gorgeous nonbinary vintage Axl Rose!
  25. Vidanjali

    The Inevitably Awkward Intro

    Welcome, @MAN8791. I relate to this so much. I'm roughly the same age as you, afab & nonbinary. For decades, I beat myself up for being a "broken" girl/woman. And I tried my darndest for many of those years to perform woman successfully. While outwardly I may have seemed "a success", inwardly the effort and dysphoria caused me so much anxiety, panic, and depression that it eventually became unsustainable. For me, the first step was letting go of identifying as "broken". Next, I allowed myself to be however I am. And very rapidly I felt better - in fact, initially I felt ecstatic. The door was open for me to really learn about self-love and therefore love itself.
  26. awkward-yet-sweet

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Well, the counter space in the kitchenette is pretty Limited. But also cost, and usefulness. I guess she is mostly right, and it isn't really important.
  27. "The Health and Human Services Grants Regulation (HHS Grants Rule) Final Rule protects LGBTQI+ people by clarifying and reaffirming the prohibition on discrimination on the basis of sex – including sexual orientation and gender identity – in specific health and human services programs, consistent with the Supreme Court decision in Bostock v. Clayton County, 590 U.S. 644 (2020)." https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2024/04/30/hhs-issues-final-rule-prevent-discrimination-health-and-human-services-grant.html
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    • awkward-yet-sweet
      For that part, be glad you live in MS and not in CA or some other "paradise."    Unfortunately, right now in the USA it is about choices.  Choose to live in a mostly free state that doesn't want my gender to exist, or choose to live in a leftist place that accepts my gender but not my family or my faith, or how I want to live my life or the stuff I own.   As for the lawsuits... hiring a lawyer costs money.  And a "no fees unless you win" attorney probably won't take a case like this, as it is difficult to get money from folks who often don't have anything.  As they say, "it is hard to get blood from a turnip." 
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      There's a couple of things.  First, since so many LGBTQ+ folks often vote Democrat, it is simply assumed that "LGBTQ = Democrat."  And to many, Democrat = enemy.  The fact that some of us don't vote for Democrats comes as a surprise to many.  You wouldn't believe how many different times I have had to explain how I vote, that I don't like Biden, etc...   And then, there's the flamboyant, over-the-top appearance and behavior of some.  When average folks see strange dress, wild colors, and the occasional provocative behavior in the news, they assume that it is the norm and that all LGBTQ+ folks are like that.  To them, "LGBTQ = weird."    I think that @Abigail Genevieve is right, part of it is lousy marketing.  And that will take a ton of undoing, because it has been going on for years.
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Personally, I despise the antics of the "swing" states. Double-minded and unstable, shifting every time the wind blows.  OK, so the Lt Governor of Georgia doesn't like Trump.  Small potatoes.... given the 2020 results, nobody counts on Georgia anyways.
    • VickySGV
      Xenophobia -- fear of the foreign nature of something.
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Its midnight here...so, technically morning   I had a really weird evening, and learned something new about politics.  My sister, who is running for public office as our township constable, received a "present" today, left on the hood of her patrol car.  An axe!  Wrapped in a bundle of sticks (dowels?).  The sheriff received one also, and a couple other candidates.  Now, my first thought was it was meant as a threat, and I was freaked out when she told me.  But she wisely identified it as political criticism:   During the 2020 election, a small dissident minority objected to our sheriff, and labeled him "Mussolini."  Apparently the symbol of the F@scist Party came from ancient Rome.  An axe, circled with rods, and the whole bundle was called "fasces" and represented the authority of the state.  Roman officials would have them symbolically carried ahead of them through the city on parade.  Other nations used it too, including the USA.  But since the 1920s, it is mostly associated with a certain political party.  Either I was never taught this in high school, or I didn't notice it.    So, it appears that this election season will have some interesting aspects.  And I have been asked to put gold spray paint on an axe, to make it like a trophy. 
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