Military Veterans and Active-Duty Service Members
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By Ivy · Posted
Leg hair. Shaving it was a surprisingly big decision. (Not as big as the beard tho) After I did it a few times, it's never really grown back. Haven't shaved them in a couple of years and you'd never know it. A daughter living with me doesn't shave hers, and she is much furrier than I ever was. I don't exactly hate my living as a guy in the past. TBH, I was never quite there anyway. But I just dropped it. I live full time fem, and it would bother me a lot to go back to being a guy. But I don't have to appease family or an employer. -
By Mmindy · Posted
@Loreleiit always sucks getting a ticket for passing a slower vehicle. I'm guessing the police officer was some distance behind you until you performed your passing maneuver. My most costly ticket was from a similar situation, however we were heading out of town and the last straight stretch of road to pass the two slower vehicles ahead of me was still in a 35mph zone. I didn't see the officer behind me and as soon as I pulled out to pass he turned on his lights and siren. Since I was in the process of passing, I figured the next safe place to pull over was at the upcoming roadside park. He didn't accept that and wrote me up for passing two gaps, speed in excess of 15mph over, and failure to stop. He did not care to hear about any fellowship in public safety, and no professional curiosities would be honored. I did go to court plead my case and the judge, and he did see my point of continuing to pass with the intentions of pulling over safely at the roadside park. He was very familiar with the location. This allowed him to drop the failure to stop charges, but I did have to pay the full 15mph over speeding ticket. So my lesson learned was to never pass when entering or leaving a small town or village. Hugs, and good luck in court. Mindy🌈🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
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By Mmindy · Posted
Ivy, I'm still holding on to hope that we won't separate/divorce because I can only imagine how much you miss your wife. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
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By Ivy · Posted
Marriage complicates things. We think we know someone… but then we don't. My ex supports me, but we're certainly not married. She actually took me out for dinner a couple days ago. But if I said I didn't miss her it would be a lie. That part is still hard. The hard truth is I had to get away from her, to have the freedom to find myself. Maybe it won't be that way for y'all. -
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By Mmindy · Posted
Kymmie, it's hard to think of her as an ally when she's still re-posting anti-trans information. On the flip side my wife is supportive of everyone else in the LGBTQIA community, and reluctantly supporting me. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
By Timi · Posted
OMG @Lorelei! I hope you have some time today to do something kind for yourself! That sounds so stressful. -Timi -
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By Mmindy · Posted
I'm sorry you and so many others in the military, were assaulted and bullied, just for being who you are. I'm glad that you've seen your old therapist and seem to be better since 2001. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
By Justine76 · Posted
@Sally Stone This is a great thread and resonates with me as well. Please keep it going! +1 on leg hair. Mine basically stopped growing on its own in my early 30s (cause unknown), but I prefer the look. Was never comfortable with body hair. -
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