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Guest Shane_82

Mmmk....

I have one friend I have not told about my ftm-ness.... He is an ex from a million years ago and been one of my closest buddies for almost 15 years... I have yet to tell him 'cause I was watching a show about trans folks & he went off on a rant about his distaste for people "like that"...

But lately... when we hang out he will say things that make me wonder if he is onto me...

Examples:

We went to breakfast the other morning.. and I had left over food... told him he could have it... and he screams " BUT YOU ARE A GROWING BOY!!!!" then laughs his head off n tells me he is just kidding....

Or... went to dinner... he was really into the waitress... as she is asking us if everything is ok he randomly says " Don't worry about my guy friend here.. you can still have me".... once again laughs n says he is playing...

There have been quite a few of these situations as of late...

So what do you guys & gals think? Does he have my number pegged... or is he just being the obnoxious guy I know he is?

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Guest Jean Davis

Well Shane

I do think that he suspects, but I also think that he is having a really hard time of it. It sounds like he is confused and doesn't know how to handle it, kinda like a little boy or girl acts like when they really like someone. They usually tease them, this is where I think your friend is at, I mean he still spends time with you but doesn't know how to act around you. I think it might be time to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him.

LUV

Jean

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