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Hi,

Im new to this whole forum posting thing and to the site itself..I've been wanting to join for a while now and I finally have Internet so all is well:) I've pretty much known my whole life that I've never really fit into the role of being a girl.. And up until about a year ago I wasn't sure that I fit in with guys either. Now I'm just trying to battle out who I am..I think I have it figured out but I have a lot of questions and hesitations regarding what I should do..I have a limited source of support, (I have friends that will always stay by me but they don't really understand or want to hear about it) and I've tried explaining that I'd rather use gender neutral pronouns for now but I'm pretty sure that went in one ear and out the other..

Im also scared to tell people that I'm confused about my gender becuase Ive been known for so long as me..and changing wouldn't be that easy..also my parents have only recently started to accept me as being a lesbian after I came out five years ago..so to come out again, well that doesn't sound fun..

Maybe I'm being irrational..regardless I'm glad there's finally a forum and site that can help me answer some questions.

I know I'm only 19 and I have my life ahead of me but I feel like I have to try and figure out who I am before I can do major things with my life...

-A

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Fredsmydog1....

Whoa...whoa...whoa...just a minute...we can't call you that...

What would you like us to call you?

Now....Welcome to the Playground, Hon....

Let me get you some pizza and a cold drink...ok?

Good...then you can sit over here and the others will stop by and say "Hi'....

This is a safe site...it's moderated for that reason and we don't judge people...you can just be you!

So, kick off your shoes and get comfy....OK?

It's so nice to have you!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Hey

I completely understand what you mean about not being a girl and about coming out as Transgendered after coming out as a lesbian - i too thought 'lesbian' though in my case it was for fifteen years and i have yet talk to anyone about the fact that lesbian isn't the whole or real story!

Anyway Hi and welcome to Laura's - its lovely to meet you :) :)

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  • Root Admin

Hello, Fredsmydog1,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Do you have a nickname we could call you? It's kind of awkward saying "Hey You". :lol:<_<

MaryEllen :)

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Guest Jean Davis

Hi A

How nice to meet you, Welcome to the family. :P

Well it sounds like you have a lot of reading to do to help find your answers.(Don't worry we were all there at one time. ;) )

Feel free to post any questions or comments you have, we'll be more than happy to try and help.

And we just love to read new outlooks on topics both old and new. :P

So please get yourself comfy and have a good time, meet new friends and learn.

LUV

Jean

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Fred'smydog1 welcome now roll over good boy! :D

Seriously Dee Jay will get you those biscuits and table scraps. while you curl up by the fireplace. :D

No seriously don't get up on the furniture, just enjoy your snack on the floor. :P

No seriously,don't put your muddy paws on the keyboard. ;)

No seriously welcome to the forum and you'll find us here to help you in any way possible.

So just vent and relax,make new friends and when you get 5 posts you can use our P.M. system to

talk to anyone in the forum you wish..

Mia

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Guest Natalie92

Welcome to Laura's A! I know the feeling of gender confusion and didn't come out as transgender until I had been "gay" for a year and a half. Sometimes it can be a little hard to tell the difference.

Natalie Alexis

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