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Hi all!

My name is Aiden, I am a 20 yr old FTM. I am currently pre T pre everything mostly. I do bind though. I start hormones in January and am still trying to figure out how to tell my parents. I am a student at WCU so they don't see me much and I pass very well here. It's hard going from a place that you pass and then going home to hear your father say you look like a boy not my daughter. But neways that's a little about me and I look forward to talking to everyone.

Aiden B)

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Guest Donna Jean

Good morning, Aiden......

It's so very nice to meet you!

I'd like to make you all comfy this morning...Here is some nice hot coco and Sally has made some cinnamon rolls...help yourself!

Now....

Let me tell you the we moderate this site and keep it safe for tha members ...no meanies here!

And we don't judge...you can just be yourself here!

After 5 posts you mat use the Personal Messenger to talk privately with who ever you chose....

So, Hon....you get all comfy and we'll see who comes by to say "Hi" .............OK?

Good!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Hi all!

My name is Aiden, I am a 20 yr old FTM. I am currently pre T pre everything mostly. I do bind though. I start hormones in January and am still trying to figure out how to tell my parents. I am a student at WCU so they don't see me much and I pass very well here. It's hard going from a place that you pass and then going home to hear your father say you look like a boy not my daughter. But neways that's a little about me and I look forward to talking to everyone.

Aiden B)

Hi Aiden , Im new too. mtf and its good to see new people posting to get perspectives from us who are just starting out on our journeys . Hope to hear from you again and good luck,

Love , Viv.

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Hello Aiden,

I think that you already have the idea that you are among friends now so get comfortable and feel free to ask questions and offer opinions we want to know what you think too.

The site is moderated but we do not exchange any addresses in the open forums - because we allow guest, most are curious for themselves or friends that have come out to them and they are trying to learn more about us - but a few trolls and predators can make you nervous so that is why the mods are here.

The site is PG-13 and generally just a great place to be.

Welcome to the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Hiya Aiden! I'm pre-everything too, except I wish I had something there to bind... It's great to hear that you pass at WCU though, isn't it? I know you'll love it here, am I right?

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Hi, Aiden, and welcome to Laura's. This site is full of wonderful people and great information.

I'm glad that college life is going the way you want it to and you're able to pass easily and fit in.

You mentioned starting HRT soon; I do hope that you will be under a doctor's care. That's very important.

Enjoy learning about what you can find here, and in the process I'm sure you'll make friends.

Carolyn Marie

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Cool name Aiden..sounds so very British Quite So!!!..good luck on the hormones...like Carolyn said.."Dr. supervison only."....Mia

Oh yeah welcome.....

Mia

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome Aiden

Welcome to Laura's Playground!!!

You are going to find many people here going through the very same thing that you are going through.

I am sure you are going to make friends here and have plenty to talk about :)

Speaking of talking.... post to the forums!!!

Love

Brenda

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Welcome Aiden,

That is my great nephews name.Welcome to your manhood,you all ready know who you are.

I would just be up front with your parents and tell your dad he has a son.It becomes too painful

to play that double role,and why so many of us go fulltime so soon.Glad to have you here.

Welcome Once Again,

Angie

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