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Hello girls, I just want to express how excited I am! I did my first hair paint yesterday! It looks great, kind of reddish brown colour. Although my hair is not long yet, last week I went to the hairstylist and she arranged my hair for growth. So far my wife is okey with this, she likes the colour too :) I am sure she will get use to the length too, with time.

And yyessss!, today I talked to the only one esthetitian in this small town who does electrolysis. First I was very shy to her, I only told that I hate shaving and I have never liked facial hair, and if it is not too weird idea for her, would she do the treatment for me?

She was just smiling at me first. And then I was very surprised of her positive attitude and kindness. She told, that she had done permanent beard removal for a man before with a great success, and she could do mine face too! She told also that it may take more than a year to have everything done, and a lot of hours. She also told that if I want, I can try how it feels by doing a 15 minutes treatment. She gave me her card, and tomorrow I will book my first electrolysis appointment! I don't know yet how I can justify this to my wife, but I find she is very understanding and patient to me as long as I don't dress in her clothes :) .

So I am so happy, and so excited about this all now! I find good advices here, and even without HRT (yet), great things can happen!

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Congratulations.

It seems like things are going well for you - so don't rock the boat - stay out of her clothes no matter how pretty they are.

Love ya,

Sally

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This is the hard part for me to stay out of her beautiful clothes, sometimes i just can't resist. Double stock is not a bad idea! I imagine appearing in the same clothes together with her! kind of jaw dropping would it be at a party, what a nice dream...

I am trying to find my balance in my situation. I would really love to start talking to a gender therapist and start HRT to look more feminine. But my fears I have to deal with, because I don't want to lose my family. I realize also that i am very feminine inside, and i start discovering that I can do small things to improve my appearance that make me happy.

Do you know how long it takes to complete an electrolysis? She told it can be a year or more. is she realistic? How many hours it takes to complete electrolysis?

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Guest Donna Jean
Do you know how long it takes to complete an electrolysis? She told it can be a year or more. is she realistic? How many hours it takes to complete electrolysis?

Honey....That's like asking "How long is a piece of string?"

It all depends on the amount of facial hair that you have....

It could take weeks..or a couple of years...depending....

Huggs

Donna Jean

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Guest Robin Winter
This is the hard part for me to stay out of her beautiful clothes, sometimes i just can't resist. Double stock is not a bad idea! I imagine appearing in the same clothes together with her! kind of jaw dropping would it be at a party, what a nice dream...

I am trying to find my balance in my situation. I would really love to start talking to a gender therapist and start HRT to look more feminine. But my fears I have to deal with, because I don't want to lose my family. I realize also that i am very feminine inside, and i start discovering that I can do small things to improve my appearance that make me happy.

Do you know how long it takes to complete an electrolysis? She told it can be a year or more. is she realistic? How many hours it takes to complete electrolysis?

I haven't started myself, but by all accounts, this is accurate.

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I'm happy for you that you're making progress, Hon. I hope that you continue to experience success.

You are very lucky to have such a supportive spouse. I hope you show her how much you appreciate it!

A little goes a long way, I've found. :)

Carolyn Marie

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Hello girls, I just want to express how excited I am! I did my first hair paint yesterday! It looks great, kind of reddish brown colour. Although my hair is not long yet, last week I went to the hairstylist and she arranged my hair for growth. So far my wife is okey with this, she likes the colour too :) I am sure she will get use to the length too, with time.

And yyessss!, today I talked to the only one esthetitian in this small town who does electrolysis. First I was very shy to her, I only told that I hate shaving and I have never liked facial hair, and if it is not too weird idea for her, would she do the treatment for me?

She was just smiling at me first. And then I was very surprised of her positive attitude and kindness. She told, that she had done permanent beard removal for a man before with a great success, and she could do mine face too! She told also that it may take more than a year to have everything done, and a lot of hours. She also told that if I want, I can try how it feels by doing a 15 minutes treatment. She gave me her card, and tomorrow I will book my first electrolysis appointment! I don't know yet how I can justify this to my wife, but I find she is very understanding and patient to me as long as I don't dress in her clothes :) .

So I am so happy, and so excited about this all now! I find good advices here, and even without HRT (yet), great things can happen!

Hi lilym 42 ,

We are around the same time frame in transition , Ive had laser re my dark stuff (not great ,for me) and around Dec. I begin needle

electrolysis . I hope for around a year there too. So , hope to hear re your progress and I am delighted your feeling so good and remember,

if it aint broken -dont fix it , KEEP FEELING GOOD :D :D :D :D Luv, Viv.

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Viv, lets do the electrolysis together then, girl. And I hope that we can share our success too :)

Huggs,

Lily

Hi Lilym 42,

fab idea and yes I would love to do that . Keep in touch and here"s to success to us both, Luv, Viv :)

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