Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

What Should I Do In College?


Guest chibi_usa

Recommended Posts

Guest chibi_usa

Lol. I read the other topic and that made me think. I'm going to a reg college not university lol...I know it's going to be different than in high school... And I don't really know what to do... And ya I suck at being specific >.>""

Link to comment
Guest April63

Well what do you want to do?

And what do you mean? What to study? How to act? How to dress? How to socialize? I assume you're referring to how act and dress with respects to being trans. I guess you should do what you feel comfortable doing. Go slow, or if you want, go fast. Be yourself, and have fun.

Link to comment
Guest ~Brenda~
Well what do you want to do?

And what do you mean? What to study? How to act? How to dress? How to socialize? I assume you're referring to how act and dress with respects to being trans. I guess you should do what you feel comfortable doing. Go slow, or if you want, go fast. Be yourself, and have fun.

I think April said it all :)

Brenda

Link to comment
Guest Jean Davis

Hi honey

April has a good point, all I have to add is do stay safe.

Make a few or just one good friend and when you go out have someone with you.

There are a lot of people out there that would like to do us harm. Some are uneducated and fear us, some may have the same feelings as we do but feel like they have to prove themselves to others to fit in and be accepted.

Please just be cautious when going out as yourself. ;)

LUV

Jean

Link to comment
Guest Anna_Banana

Become a teacher. And no, not an early-childhood/elementary school teacher because EVERYONE does that and the market there is wayyyy over-saturated. We need middle, highschool, and post secondary teachers. Math, science, special education and tech specialists are most welcome, but any subject other than art is fine as well. I started out majoring in secondary english/history education but then switched to computer information systems. I already have my Praxis 1 certification, so I may go back after I get my bachelor's and take the Praxis 2 so I can get my teaching certification.

.Anna

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean
Lol. I read the other topic and that made me think. I'm going to a reg college not university lol...I know it's going to be different than in high school... And I don't really know what to do... And ya I suck at being specific >.>""

Ok.....

Buckle down and study...after all, that's what you're there for!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Link to comment
Guest CharlieRose

In addition to what April said, I'd recommend checking out your college before you go. See if there's an LGBT group and tell them about who you are, ask them what it's like there. If you're going to dorm, see if there are gender-neutral dorms. If there's not, contact housing and explain your situation and see what you can do. Being prepared rocks.

Link to comment

Study what you're interested in and enjoy over what could potentially pay more in the long-term.

I've had friends that have made this mistake and they've relayed this regret to me with apparent sincerity.

You gotta consider, you're gonna be doin' this the rest of your life most likely and you wanna be content for the duration, right?

Link to comment
Guest Sarinah

If your asking about choosing a career path let me just say from someone who is practically a career student. Diversify. make a list of everything you are intereseted in. Take the thing on the list that pops out the most to you right now and make that your declared major since most college/univ require one. Take 2 classes in your "major" for your first few semesters and about 2 to 3 classes in areas that you want to understand better. If you find something you kinda like, take another class. Keep doing this till you find one you actually like. If it take you a while to get something you like and it ends up not being the major you originally declared you can always make that your minor. Whatever you do, dont limit yourself right away. College is for finding out who you are, so explore(im not talking about sex or drugs here, im talking about hobbies, religion, careers).

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   6 Members, 0 Anonymous, 193 Guests (See full list)

    • MaryEllen
    • Charlize
    • Birdie
    • KymmieL
    • Mmindy
    • Petra Jane
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      769.9k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,086
    • Most Online
      8,356

    TransNameA
    Newest Member
    TransNameA
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. FullyHart
      FullyHart
    2. MariPosa
      MariPosa
      (65 years old)
    3. pechenezhka
      pechenezhka
      (17 years old)
    4. Rubycd
      Rubycd
      (59 years old)
    5. Yana
      Yana
      (31 years old)
  • Posts

    • Mmindy
      I agree @Birdieto just "fit in", is what drove us to therapy. I'm not fitting in just to please someone with a closed mind. At least you know who your fair weather friends are now.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Birdie
      Yesterday in the lobby some of the residents were talking with me. One asked, "how come in all the TV commercials at the centre you don't appear in any of them?"   I explained that, "I'm an embarrassment to the centre and they don't know what to do with me." I get edited out!   Quite the differing options with the ladies at the table as some of them said, "that's discrimination", while others said, "they can see why."   Another lady said, "you would fair better if you cut your hair and went back to overalls, you should strive to fit in!"   Their opinions are as meaningful to me as rubbish. I did 45 years of trying to "fit in", and not doing that again. 😉
    • Heather Shay
      RIP David Sanborn - another amazing musician lost to us.  
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Gosh, missed Monday again.   Did you know that Producer Keith Oslen was distraught because the duo his recorded Buckingham-Nicks first album went nowhere? In walked Mick Fleetwood also distraught because once again Flleetwood Mac lost a guitarist in Bob Welsh and he was at least going studio shopping and came to Sound City in LA because he'd heard the drum sound they got there was incredible. He asked Oslen to play something recorded there. Olsen played some of Buckingham-Nicks and Fleetwood loved the sound of the guitarist and wanted Buckingham. Olsen said he comes with Nicks because Olsen managed both. Fleetwood didn't want Nicks but eventually the remaining Mac members said okay and next thing you know - the Fleetwood Mac that scored a huge following was born. Sadly right after the "Fleetwood Mac" album and before "rumours" was recorded, the band got huge headed and got rid of Oslen so they didn't have to play him a lot of music they wanted to keep. Olsen did ok after by recording Ozzy Osbourne, the Grateful Dead, Whitesnake, Pat Benatar, Heart, Santana, Saga, Foreigner, Scorpions, Journey, The Babys, Emerson, Lake & Palmer, Joe Walsh, 38 Special, and Eric Burdon & the Animals, among others. BTW - Olsen was also a members in 1967 of a band called Music Machine (not the James Taylor one) that scored a huge hit with the song "Talk Talk"
    • Heather Shay
      Still on contentment high from Sunday.
    • Heather Shay
      CONTENTMENT The relentless pursuit of happiness often overshadows the more subtle yet profound emotional state of contentment. While happiness may be a fleeting high, contentment is the gentle hum of satisfaction that resonates through the soul, offering a sustainable path to life satisfaction. Oscar Wilde's poignant observation encapsulates this truth: "True contentment is not having everything, but in being satisfied with everything you have."
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • VickySGV
      He has also vowed to NOT ACCEPT the election results even if they  clearly show he lost.
    • Carolyn Marie
      https://watermarkonline.com/2024/05/13/trump-vows-to-reverse-transgender-student-protections-on-day-one/     Carolyn Marie
    • Carolyn Marie
      https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-politics-and-policy/mississippi-reeves-transgender-bathroom-ban-public-schools-rcna152036     As in every such case, who will check birth certificates at the restroom doors?  This law will not, and can not, stand.  We'll see you in court, governor.   Carolyn Marie
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...