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Just A Few Pics Of Me *shy*


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Guest uncertain_cd

Hello all, I haven't logged on in a long time and I just thought Id stop by and say Hi and post a few pictures of myself :) . This is me just plain, my nails aren't all pretty and done up, no makeup on, hair all messy, eye brows not done in these pictures (they are now, yayyy :D ) . I honestly find myself to be ugly but Id like to know what you all think/

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, Honey....

Do you want honesty?

Or do you want me to sugar coat it?

OK! Honesty it is!

You look GREAT! VERY good and feminine...gee, I thought I was going to see something way different from your "ugly" comments...

But, you're a real looker!

Now, I would like to see one or two with a smile...is that doable?

You are really looking very female...arms, body...everything....

I like it!

Huggs!

Donna Jean

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Guest uncertain_cd

Omg... Christina *blushes*, thanks to you! :D

You really think I look very feminine? Can you um, tell me what you find very feminine about me? That be helpfulish I think to me? :)

My mom wants to take me shopping and get me a bunch of cute skirts and tops and all, shes taken me for a manicure/pedicure the other week, it was awesome! She wants me to be my super girly self and she tells me that I'm a beautiful girl all the time but I don't really believe her. I have self image issues.

I'll try and work up some courage to take some new pictures, try and get a smile or two in there for you :)

Thanks again for the sweet comments hon *hugs*

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What can I say?

You look great!

If that is ugly, then someone will have to come up with a new word for me - hideous isn't far enough away from ugly if that is what you are.

Don't put yourself down, Sweetheart and smile a little - it will do wonders for you, inside and out!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Charlene_Leona

Hon your pretty very far from ugly, and your mom is helping you with clothes and stuff. That's so cool, have her give you some lessons on how to do your makeup. Maybe you could get her to take some good pictures that show how pretty you really are.

Keep it up.

Charlene Leona

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My mom wants to take me shopping and get me a bunch of cute skirts and tops and all, shes taken me for a manicure/pedicure the other week, it was awesome! She wants me to be my super girly self and she tells me that I'm a beautiful girl all the time but I don't really believe her. I have self image issues.

One should always believe their mother, Hon. You do look great. Long limbed and thin, and the wig

is lovely and suits you well. You have a lovely face too. Very pretty!

'

I can't wait to see a pic of you with a smile.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest uncertain_cd
One should always believe their mother, Hon. You do look great. Long limbed and thin, and the wig

is lovely and suits you well. You have a lovely face too. Very pretty!

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I can't wait to see a pic of you with a smile.

Carolyn Marie

That's my real natural hair not a wig! :(

It's my girly hair and my 'metal hair' cause that's what I listen too. My hair looks ugly in those pics though, it;s all messy and not nice, I gotta take some pictures right after washing it, then it becomes beautiful!

Thank you all for your sweet comments, please keep them coming, I'm starting to feel like a pretty girl now, gosh but that's conceided.

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That's my real natural hair not a wig! :(

OMG, I'm so sorry, Hon. I'm totally embarassed. :blush:

You know, I would kill for hair like that (not you, though :P ). That is one incredible asset

you've got there, sweetie. You ARE a lucky girl!

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Amy LeBlanc
That's my real natural hair not a wig! :(

It's my girly hair and my 'metal hair' cause that's what I listen too. My hair looks ugly in those pics though, it;s all messy and not nice, I gotta take some pictures right after washing it, then it becomes beautiful!

Thank you all for your sweet comments, please keep them coming, I'm starting to feel like a pretty girl now, gosh but that's conceided.

You do look very cute and like how you said, you do need to do up your eyebrows but from that, you do look very femm. The only thing I will have to say is trim eyebrows and then you will pass 100% as is with your pics.

You need to smile and be happy. We are all friends here and we can all be here for you.

Hope to see more pictures

Amy

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Guest Jean Davis
Now, I would like to see one or two with a smile...is that doable?

Donna Jean

I'll try and work up some courage to take some new pictures, try and get a smile or two in there for you :)
Don't put yourself down, Sweetheart and smile a little - it will do wonders for you, inside and out!

Sally

I can't wait to see a pic of you with a smile.

Carolyn Marie

You need to smile and be happy. We are all friends here and we can all be here for you.

Amy

Well I'll give you 3 guesses what I'm going to say and the first two don't count. :lol:

You guessed it, a big Smile would make a world of difference. ;)

Other than that you look Fabulous!!! :P

LUV

Jean

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Guest Emily H

Honestly, you look very feminine! I like your body and your face, and your hair? I think it looks great!

And, the outfit you have on in those pics? Just wonderful :)

~Andrea

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Guest uncertain_cd
Honestly, you look very feminine! I like your body and your face, and your hair? I think it looks great!

And, the outfit you have on in those pics? Just wonderful :)

~Andrea

omg stop it all of you, your making me *blush* here! :D

Why did you put a question mark at the end of 'and your hair? ' ?? It's my real hair not a wig!! :( , you want me to make a video of me pulling at my hair as hard as I can to prove it? gosh

In the pics I don't find that I look fem but when my nails and make up are all done up and I'm dressing in something sexy I think I look like a beautiful passable girl! Everyones told me that too :)

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Guest Margaret

Uncertain cd, you look great, but your pics don't do you justice. You see a lot of pics on this site, and others, where people are photographing themselves in mirrors. Can I offer a few tips to people on photographing themselves. If you are using a compact camera, by holding it at arms length, and pointed back at yourself, you can get a good portrait type style picture. If you have a Macro setting on your camera use that, but generally just play around with your cameras settings and you'll get to know what makes you look good, and use the flash. I find that holding the camera above me and looking up at it, gives a very pleasing picture. If you are doing full figure type shots use the self timer and a tripod. You can buy small table top type tripods for a few £/$ and they are really handy, or alternatively put the camera on a table or a dresser and use books or something similar to get the right height. If your any good at photoshop you can tweek them to improve the end result.

Margaret

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