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Is My Manager Nuts?


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Guest Joanna Phipps

I am fully out at work, but I still cant figure my manager out; she will call me by my name and then 15 seconds later will use the wrong pronoun. I dont fight her on it because I find the looks she gets from the guests super funny; you'd think she would learn but nope.

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How long have you worked there? If it's been a long time, it's possible she's still adjusting to the different pronoun. Things like that can be hard to change because you don't really think about them most of the time.

Either way, I'm not sure there's going to be a rational explanation for this.

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Guest Donna Jean
I am fully out at work, but I still cant figure my manager out; she will call me by my name and then 15 seconds later will use the wrong pronoun. I dont fight her on it because I find the looks she gets from the guests super funny; you'd think she would learn but nope.

Well, Hon......

If it doesn't bother you, heck, she's the one getting the funny looks!....LOL

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Joanna hon,

Those that know us have that picture of us stored away in the gray matter called a brain, even though we change they still see that old image, it might take a long time for that image to fade, i do not think she is being malicious when she uses the wrong pronoun just the image has not faded yet.

Those that do not know us, like your customers go by visual clues as what gender you are and obviously they see Joanna.

Paula

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Guest Joanna Phipps
Well, Hon......

If it doesn't bother you, heck, she's the one getting the funny looks!....LOL

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Im in my second year on the property, and I dont bother correcting her because I find it so darn funny. I think Im at about 98-99% pass rate which is good the manager is the only one who has an issue with the pronoun to the rest I am just another one of the gals.

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Guest Joanna Phipps
Joanna hon,

Those that know us have that picture of us stored away in the gray matter called a brain, even though we change they still see that old image, it might take a long time for that image to fade, i do not think she is being malicious when she uses the wrong pronoun just the image has not faded yet.

Those that do not know us, like your customers go by visual clues as what gender you are and obviously they see Joanna.

Paula

Could be Paula, hey and it feels good to be as accepted both by the guests and the other staff as I am.

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Guest julia_d

Hi Jo .. I make a point these days of correcting people quietly under my breath so only they hear.. and if it starts to grate I tell them to just address me or refer to me by my name..after a while it sticks..

now go get 'em :)

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