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I was shopping in target earlier today and i saw a bra i wanted and i walked around a little bit until i built of the nerve to buy it i felt so relived after i left the store.

Later on i was on my way to class wearing a thong and pants under my guy clothes and i didn't realize the thong was higher then my pants line and i bent over to tie my shoes and one of my classmates said "nice thong" i was so embarrassed he didn't say one word to me the whole class but as i was walking out to the car he said "i mean it nice thong i think its sexy"

I wanted to believe his context but his para-language suggested that he may have been joking(Ive taken a few communications classes).

Overall it has been a good day

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Guest julia_d

hehehehehe.. maybe he did mean it and was actually being coy.. bi guys are like that, their signals are as messed up as ours can be. How would you feel presenting male and telling somebody you perceived as a guy his undies were sexy? He may be an ally, or he may be on a dare.. keep an eye on him.. anyway, nothing wrong with wearing thongs.. my hubby wears them all the time

oops.. wrong kind of thongs..my fella is usually commando.. which I don't find a sexy thought at all.. but I guess it's better than a string vest and y-fronts 10 sizes too big and baggy gone grey like my father used to wear *shudders*

Interesting lesson for all the girls here.. to wear skimpy/sexy underwear and have it showing in public is 1) very teen GG .. and 2) requiring a lot of confidence to carry it off comfortably. Make sure you have the figure for it ;)

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Good for you, Jessica, on the shopping excursion. You have more courage than me to shop for undies in a brick and mortar store. But next time

I'm out en femme I think I'm going to try it too. :) Why not, right?

Yeah, be careful at school, hon. Teenagers like to talk, and you don't want to become a target.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Joanna Phipps

Smiles, I can still remember the nerves and butterflies that I got the first time I went by myself for undies and bras. Congratulations on that firs major step, it really does get easier the more you do it. As to the guy that seemed to be trying to hit on you, there might be something there

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Hi Jessica,

Sure can be nerve wrecking buying panties etc. I bought a cardigan today

and got a few stares from (other)women , if only they new, sigh. Some day for you tho,

your classmate not expecting to see your undies and you not expecting to be on the

receiving end of a pass from him, a case for Moulder and Scully methinks. Luv,viv :)

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