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My name is Deven, and I just came out to my boyfriend and told him that I wanted to be a girl. He's still pondering about it but I think we'll be ok. He is also transgendered FTM and so he knows what I'm going through. He has been the pin point of my life for the past 3 years and I finally felt comfortable telling him. He's gay but he thinks that no matter what he will still love me, which I believe. I knew ever since I was little that I was a girl, but when my mother told me "That's the way god made you, and you can't do anything about it" I kinda just tried to accept that. But when I met Andrew I found out what possibilities are now open for me and I feel overwhelmed with joy that it is possible to feel and be the way I am inside.

Thanks and thank you for letting me join :3

Deven

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Deven!

Welcome to the Playground, Honey!

Let me fix you up with some hot coco and a plate of Sally's cookies....OK? Helps to break the ice!

Sit back and kick off your shoes...get all comfy and some of the others will be right by to say "HI!"....

Please take a moment to read the forum rules...link at top of most pages....and remember that this is a moderated site to keep it safe for all!

I'm glad that you've come in with us and I am happy that you have found yourself after all of this time....good on you....

It's a long journey....

It's so nice to have you here!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest ~Brenda~

Welcome Deven,

I am very glad that you have come out to your boyfriend and I am sure that he will be supportive :)

Speaking of support... you have come to the right place.

Have your boyfriend join us too if he would like :)

HUGS

Brenda

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Welcome to the forums Deven,

I am so glad that you have found us, this is the friendliest place on Earth with people willing to reach out and help whenever it is needed (not just when you ask)

You have met a couple of the sweetest girls already and I like to think that I am one of them as well but I will let you make up your own mind on that one.

This is a magical place where despair can turn to hope and hope into reality.

I had been waiting to start my journey for over 50 years but soon after coming here I knew that I could make it and so I am in my fifth month of HRT and things are going very well at the moment.

I am never alone on this journey, I have all of my sisters, brothers, sons and daughters here.

So once again welcome to the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest van-na

Hi Deven,

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Guest sarah f

Welcome to Laura's Deven. As you can see this site is very welcoming and helpful with any quesitons you may have. Keep on posting your questions and we will try to give you the answers you are looking for.

I like that you told your boyfriend and he was ok with it.

Love,

Sarah F

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Welcome to the Playground, Deven. You've met some wonderful people already, and you will

be meeting a lot more of them as time goes on.

Your boyfriend is going to be a wonderful resource for you, as the process of becoming a woman is

so very similar to the process he went through to become male, just in reverse. And any other questions

you may have that are unique to the MtF world, you can ask here, and know that you will get good

answers.

You are a lucky girl to have someone who loves you. That will make things oh so much easier.

Enjoy exploring the forums and the chat rooms. I look forward to seeing your posts.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Chandra

Welcome Deven,

You have found the best place to be. Not only does your boyfriend support you, we all do to.

Many here are very wise and will help with your questions. the combined knowledge here is very

large, but more important the genuine care and love here will make you feel like you have found a new

family.

Remember the true you, or the essinince of what makes you ,you, lyes within you. Not in the crude bodly

material on the outside.

Best Wishes, Love Chandra

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