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Guest i is Sam :-)

look at the purdy!!!!

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I wanna, I wanna.

They're really not expensive (tells herself), a bargain really for girl's shoes, so what if I have to save every penny for laser, Does that mean I can't have a treat? Wadda ya mean I don't _NEED_ more shoes?!

I suspect that my will power will magically evaporate sometime around tomorrow morning.

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Guest i is Sam :-)

well.....

... I do need a nice outfit to where to the psychiatrist's office when I go on the 25th

It want's to be obviously feminine but not over the top girly

annnnnd shoes are an essential part of any outfit right?

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Oh to have smaller feet so I could buy cute shoes but the problem is even if they have them in my size - they cease being cute about 4 sizes smaller! :(

Oh, well I have my black ballet flats with the bows on them so they are cute! :)

Read Donna Jean's signature and then do what you must!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest i is Sam :-)

I'm a UK 8 which is a US 9 (cos you guy's apparently can't count from 0) So must styles are available in my size, although a ladies 8 is a little narrow usually, but a 9 is too long, so what you gonna do? shoes stretch a bit with wearing, i'll try the 8s and see what they're like, they dang well better fit cus i don't think they had them in 9s

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I remember I used to wear the size described as gunboat but I recently moved up to the carrier class!

That is a US 13 - sort of devoid of cute!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest i is Sam :-)

that sucks, sorry for you hun, i'm glad my feet aren't mammothly big. i'd love it if they could be just a little smaller, and at least a little narrower, i've yet to try getting into pointed shoes but i doubt it'll be easier. there is cosmetic surgery to shorten your toes so that they fit into pointed shoes better. nothing they can do to shorten feet tho, tho i can't see why it'd be all that hard to shave a little off the side.

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Guest NatalieRene
look at the purdy!!!!

2277_-498892655_image.jpg

I wanna, I wanna.

They're really not expensive (tells herself), a bargain really for girl's shoes, so what if I have to save every penny for laser, Does that mean I can't have a treat? Wadda ya mean I don't _NEED_ more shoes?!

I suspect that my will power will magically evaporate sometime around tomorrow morning.

Wow Athelta has some nice shirts and pants that would go great with those shoes. I would love to have those.

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Guest NatashaJade
I remember I used to wear the size described as gunboat but I recently moved up to the carrier class!

That is a US 13 - sort of devoid of cute!

Love ya,

Sally

But, Sally, at least in the event of a flood, those of us with boats can float our way out of danger ;)

The search for cute shoes for big feet is a difficult one, especially given the cost and the amazing lack of style. Women with big feet at really just supposed to wear men's shoes from what I can gather. Then again, all the FTM boys with small feet are complaining they can't get good looking men's footwear either, so it goes both ways, I suppose. Small consolation for not being able to buy the cute boots I really wanted the other day.

luv

Gin

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Guest Joanna Phipps
I remember I used to wear the size described as gunboat but I recently moved up to the carrier class!

That is a US 13 - sort of devoid of cute!

Love ya,

Sally

US 12 to 12W and give it up on cute, but sensible is the order of the day at my age

(or am I just trying to convince my self that not having cute is ok)

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Guest NatashaJade
US 12 to 12W and give it up on cute, but sensible is the order of the day at my age

(or am I just trying to convince my self that not having cute is ok)

We can try to give up cute or think it's ok not to have cute, but a cute pair of shoes should be every girl's birthright!

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Sam, those are adorable. Go for 'em honey. If they make you happy, they're worth every penny.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Nikki A

im a heel person more than sneakers, but i see the appeal!

where size is involved im a little blessed. im a size eight for most womens shoes (also the size of my bff) we trade shoes all the time! if i cant be out in public with my heels, i just drive with em and switch before leaving the car!

hugs, Nikki

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Guest i is Sam :-)

So I got them, after a rather fail start to the day I rallied and walked a mile and a half in the rain to go get them. And I have a couple of nice tops that I think will be ok for when I see the shrink next monday. The question is, help me here girls, Do I go with my "enhanced" breasts, or do I go flat chested?

I Don't want to look like I'm putting on a show, but obviously I do want to be honest, I also need to feel comfortable tho, and in that regard I'm worried that the shrink might look at me weird. I don't even know if they're male or female.

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Guest Joanna Phipps
So I got them, after a rather fail start to the day I rallied and walked a mile and a half in the rain to go get them. And I have a couple of nice tops that I think will be ok for when I see the shrink next monday. The question is, help me here girls, Do I go with my "enhanced" breasts, or do I go flat chested?

I Don't want to look like I'm putting on a show, but obviously I do want to be honest, I also need to feel comfortable tho, and in that regard I'm worried that the shrink might look at me weird. I don't even know if they're male or female.

The easy answer to that is, go which ever way you feel comfortable. I noticed that as soon as I started wearing my forms again it helped me pass. 

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Guest i is Sam :-)

I might get my eyebrows done next week, my hair still really isn't long enough to get it cut but I can play with styles. the only way I'd ever stand a chance of passing tho would be if my facial hair was thin enough and fine enough from the laser session this tuesday (so 6 days before) that it is coverable with foundation.

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