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Tomorrow is the LAST day for me to post of my name application if i want it to come back before i start school.

Well i missed one minor detail on it and i need to get in contact with my bank before i can mail it.

The banks are closed now as it is 9 30 pm. they will be closed tomorrow as it is a public holiday

So... Im starting school as Daniel.

Everyone is going to know my old name

everyone is going to know im a boy

its going to be my old school all over again...

Im so upset that im shaking and cant see straight >_<

I just... i mean... gah i tried so hard...

and here i am, even after all my effort, i still failed

go me

Love

Ash

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Ash,

Don't be too hard on yourself about the form - all government forms are intentionally difficult because if they weren't 95% of all governmental jobs would be totally unnecessary.

When something goes wrong just remember it always could have been worse.

When it comes to failing I have done a great deal of that in my lifetime but I always think about it in a more positive light - at least I tried.

I hope that helps a little.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean

Ashlee...

Please don't be so hard on you....

I know that this will not mean anything to you, but, I'll say it anyway...

You're young...you've got lots of time...you can still get it changed an give it to the school..

You may have to change using your name mid-stream, but, Honey....it's doable...

Stick with it...

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Hi,

Daniel is also a nice female name. In Germany you would get a problem without a second indicating male name. So maybe you are able to built a story about your name that you are Daniel Ashlee or so.

Greetings

Nelly

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Hi,

Daniel is also a nice female name. In Germany you would get a problem without a second indicating male name. So maybe you are able to built a story about your name that you are Daniel Ashlee or so.

Greetings

Nelly

I dont think its a very femme name... lol

((Dan-Yal)) *shudders* reminds me so much of that horrible horrible childhood. i just wanna be rid of it!

I plan on calling the school and speaking to the wellfare person (who knows fully about my situation) and she may be able to pull some strings to get me on all the class rosters as Ashlee. that will help me a GREAT deal coz if i go on my first day as daniel, i dont know if i would die or just burst into tears

Fingers crossed she can do this for me >_<

and thanks for the support girls =)

Lots of love

Ash

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I plan on calling the school and speaking to the wellfare person (who knows fully about my situation) and she may be able to pull some strings to get me on all the class rosters as Ashlee. that will help me a GREAT deal coz if i go on my first day as daniel, i dont know if i would die or just burst into tears

Ash

That sounds like a good plan, Ashlee. If there is any way to do it I'm sure she will. She will see how important this is to you.

I wish you luck, girl. Let us know what happens, OK?

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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