I Think I Came Out Without Meaning To

[Guest Danielle J]

Okay, I was asked to play darts as a substitute. I called my wife and asked if it would be okay

Boy was that a mistake. So needless to say I proceeded to play Darts. But that is not the bad part while we were playing

I was talking with a female friend, and told her I would love to have her hair style, And she thought that I meant I wanted it for my wife.

But I said no I would love it, at which point she just Kind of looked at me , and I saw the realization come across her face. She promised not to say anything

But we'll find out We have talked about hair styles for the past couple of years. I'll talk to her in the morning.

Danielle

[Guest Katrina_Carter]

Usually the first conclusion people jump to when you slip something like that out is "gay", then "cross dresser". Unless someone has had experience with transgendered individuals, you pretty much have to tell them straight out. Of course that's not true for every situation, and may be different where you are from in the world. It is simply a generalized statement of how things occur in my life and surroundings.

Good luck with the talk though, having someonhttp://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?act=post&do=reply_post&f=5&t=16039#e there to listen helps immensely.

[Guest Donna Jean]

Usually the first conclusion people jump to when you slip something like that out is "gay", then "cross dresser".

This is very true...

Transsexuals are rare except for here...

Most people will think those two choices before taking the Trans route...not enough of us out there...

The other girl at work (I'm the other) told me last year that she knows a man that became a woman...I don't know how that got into our conversation, but now she's met two! Although she doesn't know it yet...

Huggs

Donna Jean

[Guest sarah f]

Danielle I am sorry about the slip up but maybe this is a good thing. If she doesn't blab to anyone than you have someone on your side and may just become a close friend that you can talk to about your feelings. At least you can hope that will be the outcome.

Love,

Sarah F