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A Funny Thing Happened During An Arguement


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Just had a verbal spat with my ex-fiancee a bit ago. The neighbors would probably call it a loud arguement. Anyway, she mentioned something about not trusting because of all the times she was burned by guys in the past. I of course took offense to that and told her it hurt my feelings and left the room. When I got back she of course recommenced the verbal barrage. Through this second barrage she was going off about my feelings being hurt with phrases such as "your SUCH a woman", "Stop being a pregnant dog" and "Your acting like a little girl". As the assault continued I just began smiling and kinda chuckled. She starts screaming about "whats so funny" and all. I of course had no comment so she stormed off in a storm.

The thing about it is that I'm not out to her or anyone back here. I wonder if there is some sixth sense or something. I KNOW she was trying to hurt my feelings but in all honeaty it made my night.

Just FYI, I'll be on vacation till next week so I'll see ya'll when I get back. Hopefully I can get out in the morning before she gets home from work.

M~

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Guest NatalieRene
Just had a verbal spat with my ex-fiancee a bit ago. The neighbors would probably call it a loud arguement. Anyway, she mentioned something about not trusting because of all the times she was burned by guys in the past. I of course took offense to that and told her it hurt my feelings and left the room. When I got back she of course recommenced the verbal barrage. Through this second barrage she was going off about my feelings being hurt with phrases such as "your SUCH a woman", "Stop being a pregnant dog" and "Your acting like a little girl". As the assault continued I just began smiling and kinda chuckled. She starts screaming about "whats so funny" and all. I of course had no comment so she stormed off in a storm.

The thing about it is that I'm not out to her or anyone back here. I wonder if there is some sixth sense or something. I KNOW she was trying to hurt my feelings but in all honeaty it made my night.

Just FYI, I'll be on vacation till next week so I'll see ya'll when I get back. Hopefully I can get out in the morning before she gets home from work.

M~

No she wasn't picking up on anything. It's just like you said. She was upset because instead of getting upset at what she thought was the equivalent to kicking you in your nads verbally you laughed at her.

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Guest Ryles_D
The thing about it is that I'm not out to her or anyone back here. I wonder if there is some sixth sense or something. I KNOW she was trying to hurt my feelings but in all honeaty it made my night.

It really shouldn't. It's great you were happy- but you have to know that, if anything, she was implying that not only are you a man- but you're the kind of manly man who actually cares about your manliness. She was upset and was attacking with intent to hurt- not intent to compliment. If she had known/sensed/etc that you were a woman, she would have been going on about how you're a typical man and too masculine for your own good. :(

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Hi Hun,,,,I dunno,,maybe she senses something ,,,women do pick up on so much more

than men -nuances , tiny little traits etc and if thats the case she could be subconsciously

treating you as an equal,that would be nice yeh??,,See ya when you get back hun,,,luv,viv :)

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She was trying mightily to hurt you by throwing what to a

cisgendered male,would have been an assault on his maleness

by verbally calling you anything feminine she could think of.

While all it did for you,was make you smile.She,without being

aware of it,was only re enforcing that which you all ready know

is true.(grin)

Hugs,

Angie

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