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Guest Brianna

Last night I had a dream.

I was doing something (can't remember what) and i was looking into a mirror. All of the sudden, I noticed that the hair on the back of my head started to get longer. I touched it and then all of my hair started growing longer, brown and straight, it dropped past my shoulders. In my dream I was really happy that I finally had long hair that I could do feminine stuff to. Then I woke up :(. I realized my hair was just as short as it was when I went to bed.

I just thought it was funny because it reflected my concerns for how my hair grows (becomes a fro). And how that may present a challenge when I transition.

I attached a picture of me with my longer hair, sorry for poor quality, i took it with my 30$ webcam. This was about 2 months ago, before I got my hair buzzed.

Any hope for me other than a straightener? I worry that it will never grow down :(

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Guest Michelle M

It should be the least of your worries for transitioning. Some girls just have hair that do that. It might grown down and long if you grow it out enough, it will have nowhere else to go but down. A good stylist can do almost anything with hair if you have enough of it to play with. Don't worry about it! =) Be happy that you have hair and that you're transitioning before male pattern baldness strikes.

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Guest Mr. Fox

I don't know your hair as well as you do, but I think if you grow your hair long enough, it will eventually stop froing (ooh! I made up a verb!) If all else fails, straighten until it grows out enough to put in a ponytail.

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Guest Katie-Louise

I love the new verb froing! Maybe it will stop froing after quite a long time of growing it because gravity will do it's work :lol: if not maybe get a head band to force your hair down or at least flatter. You know your hair and you will find a way to have it the way you want or you could ask your sister or your mom how they get there hair to grow down. lots of cuddles and kisses

Samantha

xxx

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Guest Andrea-M

Hair extensions could be the answer, although quite expensive and high maintenance but they always look fab, and you get the style you want. But try let it grow and get it straightened and see what happens.

hugs Andrea.

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Guest kunoichigoddess

this is what i do and over a long period of time its worked, when i get out of the shower i come it down and blow dry it so that the oil in the hair that keeps it flexible somewhat deminishes and makes it hold down (my hair doesnt go strait up but it makes me feel like a xmas tree =P, call yourself lucky) also right after get a brush and push it against your face while your combing, thats all that ive been doing when its long enough ponytail it so itll go down a bit too

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Guest Kelly

i got get my haircut everymonth and my stylist cuts the bottom layer of my hair so it grows down not into a froish puffball ask ur hair stylist/barber

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