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Guest Lilith Be Gone

Hello there. I am Lilith. I just joined the Form. I've been out of the closet for almost half a year now and I still have a long way to go. I've been fighting my sexual identity for years but has never done anything about it other then oppress it until a short while ago.

I am a male to female transsexual or transgender. I'm not sure the difference so much.

Anyways! I'm just saying Hello to every one out there! And I'm glad to meet all of you!

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Guest Donna Jean

Welcome to the Playground, Lilith!

It's good to meet you!

Let me get you fixed up with some nice hot coco and some of Sally's cookies! That will get you of to a good start this morning!

Oh, and could you take a minute to look at the Forum rules? There's a link at the top of most pages...OK?

We're a moderated site and that keeps it safe for everyone!

So, grab a chair, kick back and just relax!

Enjoy yourself, Honey!

HUGGS!

DSonna Jean

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Welcome to the Playground, Lilith.

I hope that you find all the support, friendship and resources here that you are looking for. Please post

to any forum and you will get a response. New topics in the Teen Forum are restricted to teens only, but

you can reply to any.

If Chat interests you, please do check out our Chat rooms. They are moderated also, and you'll need a

separate registration, and someone will probably conduct a short interview with you. The Chat rooms

are a lot of fun, and of course that is also where our crisis intervention folks hang out.

Make yourself at home, Lilith, because you are.

Carolyn Marie

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Welcome to the family Lilith!

You have found a place where those labels aren't really important - this is where you are just Lilith - not Lilith MTF or Lilith who was born a man - just Lilith because that is who you are.

I hope that you feel as at home here as I do, I live here!

So enjoy your time here, feel free to post and ask questions - once you have five posts you may use the PM system and all of the features.

If you ever need a little help just ask and if you ever want some more cookies just let me know - I always have a fresh batch waiting when someone feels the need for a nice warm cookie and a sympathetic ear.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

WELCOME!

And you wrote: I am a male to female transsexual or transgender. I'm not sure the difference so much.

Same thing really - transgender is a polite term many of us use to leave out the word 'sex' because so many people get the wrong idea. Our condition is really gender dysphoria, mainly about gender - not so much about sex.

BUT

Transsexual is the correct term. The medical and mental health people use it.

Technically - my opinion? I feel I have always been my gender (female) and I am not changing that - rather I am modifying my body to more match what I am. That requires reworking both my primary and secondary 'sexual' characteristics. The first through SRS - the second through HRT. The third change is living full time. That requires no doctors or surgeons.

Just an interesting way of looking at it.

Lizzy

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Guest snow white

Hi Lilith,

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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welcome to the forums Lilith! :) may i just say that i'm a huge fan of the name, as well. i was always a fan of the show 'frasier' and your namesake character was one of my favorites.. but i digress.

welcome again!

Drew

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