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Packers And Skinny Jeans

Guest Miles

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Guest Miles

Guest Miles

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Hey guys,

I'm mostly a lurker, far enough in my transition that I don't need passing advice or coming out advice.

But I have started packing more often... bought my packer over a year ago,

but only starting packing consistently since I've been on T (right now I'm over 7 months.)

Anywho, I wear almost exclusively skinny jeans from Hottopic, and I absolutely LOVE

the look of my packer in my skinny jeans. I feel like I look so sexy. xD

I used to be nervous that people would ask or mention it, and I didn't want to have

to explain myself, but I realized if other guys are allowed to emphasize their package,

why not me?! So I've been packing a lot, to the point where I feel awkward not packing.

(The only thing is sometimes it's weird to sleep in, just because if I'm sleeping shirtless I

sleep on my stomach.)

SO, that's all!!!! Anyone else have packing stories??

-Miles

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Guest viv

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Hello Miles ,,,,going the other way myself so as for "packing",

no advice hun except if you keep practicing Im sure all will

be well ,,,luv,viv :)

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Guest Alexander James

Guest Alexander James

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I don't pack T_____T

I wear skinny jeans ALL THE TIME and I want to soooooooooooooooooooooooo bad but....

1) Awkward with friends (I just gain a bulge, they know I'm trans but some are mean about it)

2) Dad comes with me to college ( he knows I'm trans but he choose to not use male nouns so still weird)

3) I use socks....

BUT! When I'm alone at home I would but on a pair of skinny jeans and pack and feel so HOT~ <3 LIKE UGH~! I'M A SEXY MAN~ lol

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Lately, especially since I started T, I've been more conscious of my lack of a bulge down there... I know with the next paycheck I get, a packer will be in order. :) I've packed a couple times with a sock, and it helped with the dysphoria, but still didn't feel quite right. Even so, I feel like I look better when I have something down there, ESPECIALLY in jeans. My jeans aren't tight, they're just straight legs, but they fit well enough to tell whether or not I have the proper bulge. -- So yeah, I completely get it.

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random question but do you wear a harness? (@ anyone) cos i just got a limpy from love honey and although its the perfect size and everything, it can sometimes move too much but i dont know how effective the harnesses are. any suggestions?

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Guest Miles

Guest Miles

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random question but do you wear a harness? (@ anyone) cos i just got a limpy from love honey and although its the perfect size and everything, it can sometimes move too much but i dont know how effective the harnesses are. any suggestions?

Yeah, I always use a harness.

this is pretty much what I use. I didn't bother paying for one :P

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Guest Joe Joe

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Try checking out tranzwear, if you havent already. They are great for packing and keep it all in place and natural looking. no harness needed.

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Guest Adrian

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If my behind wasn't so emphisised by skinnys I would do that all the time, not least because I love skinnys and I have two really good pairs... Blows that I feel I can't wear them until later in transition.

One of them it bright pink with leapord spots :lol:

Judge all you like, you know I'll look gooood... B)

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Guest Skylar

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I can't wait to get a packer. Right now I'm using socks like Alex basically because I'm having some of the same problems he is.

1. Parents know that I'm trans but don't exactly accept it. I feel like I have to even hide going to the men's restroom around them.

2. They still call me by my birth name so it's a little embarassing out in public when I'm "dressed".

3. Friends know, but I've known them so long that it would just be weird. I guess I just need to be bolder. Maybe once I get a real packer, I'll experiment more.

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Guest Miles

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One of them it bright pink with leapord spots :lol:

Judge all you like, you know I'll look gooood... B)

oh my god, those sound so awesome!!!! i'd totally wear those.

no judging :D

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I prefer slim-fitting boot cut jeans. (In fact, I actually prefer flares, which are difficult to find for guys, probably one thing I'll actually miss about being a "girl" is the cuts on jeans... lol. But I guess slim-fitting boot cut for guys is pretty similar. I like the rocker look. B) )

Anywho, I haven't started packing yet but want to start soon, can't wait to where slim-fitting, low-rise jeans with a bulge where it belongs. :D

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Guest Adrian

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oh my god, those sound so awesome!!!! i'd totally wear those.

no judging :D

Next up are bright green and electric blue... B)

After that orange.

I already have red punk, and purple.

What about luminous yellow...? :lol:

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Guest Wolfy19

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Yeah, I always use a harness.

this is pretty much what I use. I didn't bother paying for one :P

is that homemade? how can i get one of those? lol that wud make my life so much easier! lol

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Hey guys,

I'm mostly a lurker, far enough in my transition that I don't need passing advice or coming out advice.

But I have started packing more often... bought my packer over a year ago,

but only starting packing consistently since I've been on T (right now I'm over 7 months.)

Anywho, I wear almost exclusively skinny jeans from Hottopic, and I absolutely LOVE

the look of my packer in my skinny jeans. I feel like I look so sexy. xD

I used to be nervous that people would ask or mention it, and I didn't want to have

to explain myself, but I realized if other guys are allowed to emphasize their package,

why not me?! So I've been packing a lot, to the point where I feel awkward not packing.

(The only thing is sometimes it's weird to sleep in, just because if I'm sleeping shirtless I

sleep on my stomach.)

SO, that's all!!!! Anyone else have packing stories??

-Miles

I sadly am packerless right now. I do use a sock though since it just makes me feel better. I have a pair of skinny jeans that still fit me and I wear them with a suit jacket in order to hide my hips. Once I lose weight I'll have more skinny jeans of mine I can wear. ^.^

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is that homemade? how can i get one of those? lol that wud make my life so much easier! lol

yeah, it's really easy to do it yourself. i used underwear waistband for the one that goes around the waist, and actually panty hose for the other part... if you use elastic for the other part, you run the risk of literally castrating yourself :lol:

and i just tied the panty hose in knots to the waistband! it took about five minutes.

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yeah, it's really easy to do it yourself. i used underwear waistband for the one that goes around the waist, and actually panty hose for the other part... if you use elastic for the other part, you run the risk of literally castrating yourself :lol:

and i just tied the panty hose in knots to the waistband! it took about five minutes.

that sounds awesome. my girlfriends handy with a needle and thread so i may enlist her help in making a harness.. :)

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