Another Minor Success

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

I had to take my wife to the dentist today (yuck) she needed a tooth filled in the worst way. She and I were talking to another woman while we were waiting for her appointment. Once she went it I spent the next 45 min or so talking to the same woman, so all in all it was about an hour and a half talking to a GG who was about 4 feet from me and not having a problem, she accepted me for what I showed refered to me as girl and occasionally girlfriend (I dont know her from eve).

Im happy, if I can pass at that range I can pass at any range... well except for intimate range but only my wife sees me that way.

[Sally]

JoJo,

It isn't passing anymore, it is just who you are.

You have stopped fighting against the system - remember your early battles with your therapist - you have come to terms with yourself as a woman not a man in transition and so that is what people see.

You can pass anywhere you go with your new and improved attitude - I would however avoid steam rooms and public showers!

You made the big transition you no longer feel like you are trans - you feel like you are a woman and so you are.

We are now, have always been and will forever be our own worst critics and enemies.

I am so happy for you and especially for your wife who has benefited from this new attitude as well - she went through a lot with you and you be sure to let her know just how much you appreciate that - you are very special women - enjoy life and each other.

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest BeckyTG]

Joanna,

It looks to me like you've sold everyone else on who you are, you just need to finish with yourself.....

I don't mean that so much in a negative way as I do in a learning way for all of us. We get so used to the idea that maybe we're not really a woman and "we'll be found out", that it may be difficult to accept the fact that we really are and there's nothing more TO find out.

I know that you are secure with who you are and it is great to get those moments of reassurance.

I'm happy for you, just keep on, Big Sis. A lot of us little girls are watching from behind the curtains and under the bed....

Hugs,

Becky

[Guest Donna Jean]

I agree, Joanna......

You're not haveing to "fool" anyone that you're a woman...Dang it , Girl....YOU ARE!

It really sounds wonderful that you can sit and chat with someone as you...

Not doing anything special, just being yourself!

That's awesome!

Love it!

Donnna Jean

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

I guess I should quit being silly and just admit that for all intents and purposes my transition is over. The woman I once dreamed of is now the one in the mirror. I am who I was meant to be, with the small matter of a bad bit of factory equipment. But those little confidence boosts are so good.

[Guest Joanna Phipps]

Joanna,

It looks to me like you've sold everyone else on who you are, you just need to finish with yourself.....

I don't mean that so much in a negative way as I do in a learning way for all of us. We get so used to the idea that maybe we're not really a woman and "we'll be found out", that it may be difficult to accept the fact that we really are and there's nothing more TO find out.

I know that you are secure with who you are and it is great to get those moments of reassurance.

I'm happy for you, just keep on, Big Sis. A lot of us little girls are watching from behind the curtains and under the bed....

Hugs,

Becky

that explains why the drapes dont hang right and the bed is not sitting level.... careful how you watch you might see something you werent inteded to see. 

Hugs lil sis

youre growing up all too fast

[Guest viv]

Im watching too ,,,,from on top of the wardrobe viv