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i've been on this site for a little while and havent introduced myself, well this is it! This is me! Lois :)

i'm 43 and all this is pretty new for me. i consider myself female and allways have but could never reveal my true self to anybody.

until recently i was married and living as male but i could not go on living that lie anymore, i have two beautiful kids, daughters that i dont have contact with anymore.

and that's my story so far!

i'm so glad i found this site, i cant wait to make new friends!

love

Lo Lo xoxoxoxo

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Hello Lo Lo,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. Come on in, kick your shoes off and sit a spell. The welcome wagon will be along shortly to give you a proper welcome. :lol:

MaryEllen :)

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Guest swee'pea

Hi Lo lo

<<hug>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Welcome to the Playground, Lois!

I am sorry to hear of your family situation. It certainly is no rarity around here. Many of us have begun transition later in life, myself included, and we

have families too. It is a struggle in the best of circumstances, so you have kindred spirits who understand what you are going through.

I'm glad you chose us to share your journey with, and we will do all we can to support you along the way.

Oh, I'm remiss! I forgot my manners. :( Please take a seat in the Member's Lounge and I'll offer you a plate of Sally's cookies and some hot cocoa.

We are a moderated site, so please take a few moments to read through the Forum Rules. There is a link at the top of most pages. We do our best to keep

predators out and things at a PG-13 level.

I hope you find what you need here. I look forward to reading your posts.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Chandra

Hello Lo_lo,

Welcome dear to Laura's playground. This will be your escape, your sanctuary from every day life where the the real you can come out and be accepted for what ever you are. You are completely free here no one will judge you at all. Get to know us and you will learn much about yourself through the experiences of ones simulator to you. Interact and you will find that everyone here is so polite, so caring so loving, you will know that you have found your special place with ones that you can identify with, and understand better where you are at in your life.

But beware this place is so special it might change your life, hopefully for the better.

There are many very smart ones here who will help you with almost anything. But you kind of have to take a leap a faith and let yourself go to us so that the real you inside will come out to mingle and interact.

Through time you will understand yourself better which will result in you feeling better and not alone but part of a large family that takes care or their own. You are one of us now, that will make friends and feel like one of the family.

I guarantee this will be a pivotal point in your life. And it will be all good if you use the resources at your fingertips. I sincerely hope you will get as much out of this site as most do.

If there is anything I can do for you let me know, and I will do my best, promise

Welcome to the family sweetheart, your new friend

Love and hugs, Chandra

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Guest Selkia

Welcome Lois,

I see Carolyn Marie has offered you some of Sally's cookies. they're really good...*starts eatting some of them off the plate*

Im sorry to hear about your family issues.

If you need anyone to talk too feel free to send me a message.

Im glad you found this website, theres alot of helpful members here that should be able to anwser many of your questions

~Sel

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Hi Lo Lo,

I am so glad that you have found us, I am sorry about your family situation, I also had my wife leave me but I had no children.

I hope that Selkia has left enough cookies for you.

We want you to know that we are friendly but not to the point of eating all of the cookies.

Welcome to your new family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi and Welcome Lois :)

I too was divorced by the time I was 43. I am so sorry to hear that you don't see your daughters anymore. I do hope that changes for you someday.

You and I have much in common. After making 5 posts you can use the PM system here :) (we should chat).

So (as Lizzy says...) POST! POST! POST!!

Hugs and Welcome Dearheart.

Love

Brenda

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Lo Lo...

Welcome to the Playground!

I see that you've received a very warm welcome...that's how it is here...

So many begin their journey here because of the wonderful people and huge amount of resources...

I think that you're really going to like it here....most do!

It's so nice to have you!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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