Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Transitioning


Guest Elizabeth K

Recommended Posts

Guest Elizabeth K

I have an opinion (LIZZY! Shame!)

A gender dyshoric person who is diagnosed transsexual is offered options. I maintain that if you proceed to a comfort level you have transitioned.

Say you chose hormone treatments (MTF or FTM) and NO surgery?

Say you chose NO hormone treatment and NO surgery?

As long as you get to that point where you are what you are, and present that way, you have successfully transitioned.

Opinions?

Elizabeth

Link to comment
Guest Evan_J
I have an opinion (LIZZY! Shame!)

A gender dyshoric person who is diagnosed transsexual is offered options. I maintain that if you proceed to a comfort level you have transitioned.

Say you chose hormone treatments (MTF or FTM) and NO surgery?

Say you chose NO hormone treatment and NO surgery?

As long as you get to that point where you are what you are, and present that way, you have successfully transitioned.

Opinions?

Elizabeth

Exactly.

Ditto.

And right.

and the key phrase was and present that way; as long as there was movement (ok another key element) from dysphoric to at peace and it is lived out publicly then to all of my understanding and opinion "transition" has occured.

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean

Oh, yes......

A transition is like a journey from one point to another .....

A to B..........

So when you arrived at "B" you have transitioned because it is where you were going. Your destination.

No one else can tell you when you get there.....only you know ....

HRT, Surgery, Electrolysis....doesn't really matter ....it depends on one's needs....

That's my take!

Donna Jean

Link to comment
  • Admin

That's very true, Elizabeth. I couldn't agree more.

I have one relative and many friends who have, for a wide variety of reasons, decided that living as female

or male, and taking hormones to assist with that, is not for them. They have reached a comfort level, at

least for now, with whatever stage they are in.

Most reserve the right to change that in the future, if their dysphoria gets worse, or their life situation changes.

But in their minds, and as far as I'm concerned, they are transsexual and have transitioned.

Being at peace with who you are is the ONLY important consideration.

Carolyn Marie

Link to comment

I couldn't have put it better myself, Liz. We are transitioning to be comfortable; I think it follows that we have transitioned when we are comfortable.

Link to comment
Guest Lizzie McTrucker

I suppose? I mean I'm very comfortable at the point I'm at now but I'm also looking forward to continuing on with my transition.

Link to comment
Guest angie

I can say yes you can to that Lizzy.

My very dear friend Ruby lived for six and a half years

as a woman without aid of hormones.( I finally hounded

her into going to my/our doc and get prescribed her HRT)

But she was and is totally at peace with who she is,and lives

her life VERY Out.Was/is the first transwoman to run for public

office in SanAntonio,is the public face of SAGA as our group

president,and is part of the LGBT Democrates also. So yes you

can find a personal peace at where ever you may choose,or have

to stop in your transition. Yeppa you can.

Angie

Link to comment

I agree with Lizzy - surprise - transitioning is for yourself not for others - go just as far as you need and be at peace with yourself and be happy.

If you can never see yourself transitioned and at peace then you never will be - the vision needs to be first without it you are on a journey without any destination and without end.

I believe that I would like to have SRS but if that never happens I will be fully transitioned as soon as I am full time.

That is my opinion so that is all I need.

Love ya,

Sally

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest TracieV3
I have an opinion (LIZZY! Shame!)

A gender dyshoric person who is diagnosed transsexual is offered options. I maintain that if you proceed to a comfort level you have transitioned.

Say you chose hormone treatments (MTF or FTM) and NO surgery?

Say you chose NO hormone treatment and NO surgery?

As long as you get to that point where you are what you are, and present that way, you have successfully transitioned.

Opinions?

Elizabeth

Exactly. The whole point of transitioning is 'to be yourself'.

Tracie

Link to comment
Guest ChalenAustin

I have personally reached a point wher I know I plan to transition farther, but for now, I am exactly where I am supposed and need to be!

I think I pass bc I think I look the way I should if I was born me minus the puberty aspect of it. The rest of the planet disagrees but they're not me!

Could use a wardrobe update but trival things aside.... I knew I had transitioned 4 years ago when I decided to realize who I really was and make small steps toward becoming that person INSIDE then OUT! And like I just said apparently the out is very debatable! :D

Transition just means to shift from one phase to another really.

Look at all the endless possiblities in that!

Sorry forgot- if they're endless then no on can see them all. Tee hee!

20years from now- that's another story.

Hey Gen! I hope you've made some progress with those surgeries by then! :D

Link to comment
Guest SusanKG

I think that if I have not had GRS I have not transitioned. I may well have reached a comfort level - maybe temporary, maybe permanent - but I have not transitioned. I am of course in process, but if I have the male equipment trespassing on my body, I am not finished. Every thing else is cosmetic. Some of what most of us go through may be extremely important to our transition to one degree or another: clothes, hair, voice, mannerisms, hormones, electroylisis, telling family and friends, a hundred other things, but if I have not changed my body to match my mind and catch up to my soul, that is transitioning, not transition. One year or sixty, there must be a destination to this journey. Oh please, tell me there is!

SusanKG

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   7 Members, 0 Anonymous, 164 Guests (See full list)

    • Ivy
    • Petra Jane
    • SamC
    • KathyLauren
    • Justine76
    • MAN8791
    • MaryEllen
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      770.1k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,092
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Selena729
    Newest Member
    Selena729
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Angelo christoper
      Angelo christoper
      (38 years old)
    2. Joslynn
      Joslynn
      (61 years old)
    3. Kaltia_Atlas
      Kaltia_Atlas
    4. Rika_Lil
      Rika_Lil
      (40 years old)
    5. Summerluv
      Summerluv
      (19 years old)
  • Posts

    • MaeBe
      My boss is in a panic. His business is a couple straws away from breaking a camel in half. He's just handling the stress very poorly.   My dad, though. He's handling things pretty well, as long as I continue to don't get massively offended by being called: son, boy, etc. His eldest is leaving the State and looks so different than he's been used to over the years. I haven't told him I'm on HRT, but to be fair the changes haven't been massive. I've always had boobs, more so after COVID weight gain and made more obvious with its loss, but now I'm not hiding them--and obviously wearing a bra. The estrogen has done some work, but nothing major (sadly). I think the biggest HRT changes have been my skin and a mild amount of fat redistribution.   Today I'm wearing my cheater, I almost have cleavage! :D I need to get another t-shirt bra to keep a good rotation. I only have two, one push-up, and the rest are unlined (great for Summer, but not great for my Summer wardrobe ).
    • Justine76
      Thank you so much April! 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Glad to hear it. Abby
    • JenniferB
      I eat a ketogenic diet and have had no problems. I don't know about your case but I suspect it is the estrogen. Research the types of ways to take estrogen. Pay close attention to the bloodwork results. If they are not satisfactory, bring it up with your doctor. I take injectables, which are fully covered by insurance. It may not be the route for you, but something to consider. I emphasize to do your research and good luck. You can solve this. Be persistent.    Jennifer
    • April Marie
      I'm in a magenta blouse under a baby blue buttoned cardigan - still a little cool here in the northeast today - with dark blue jeans. Oh, and my favorite flame colored copper feather earrings.
    • April Marie
      What a wonderful photo! You look gorgeous!!!
    • Justine76
      White crop top and capri jeans ;) Finaly tricked the face id on my phone, "that's not you" lol.
    • JenniferB
      This is my opinion, so take it for that. Fatigue is based more on what you eat. Eat a more healthy diet, and stay away from ultra-processed foods and that should help. Think of eating the way we did a couple hundred years ago before the industrial revolution. It's just a thought.   Jennifer
    • April Marie
      Welcome back, Jennifer! As a relative newbie to the forum and to transition, I look forward to getting to know you and share in your experiences.
    • JenniferB
      I like the fact that you found support and have close members of your life. That is very important. No matter where you are on your journey, you have to have the support. Or you drift, and you question yourself.    Looking forward to your progress,   Jennifer
    • JenniferB
      The source of estrogen can matter. I started HRT at age 50. My avatar was the result. I started on pills, and moved to estradiol valerate injectables. However, there was a shortage, and I had to use a compounding pharmacy. The estradiol would evaporate in the vial, and couldn't get 5 doses out of it. I eventually move to the patch.    Over time I realized the patch wasn't working properly. And, the last time I visited my doctor he told me my estrogen levels were low. He asked me if I wanted to change to estradiol valerate. I jumped for joy. So I started my script for estradiol valerate. My prescription was ready, but I didn't receive my script for needles for a couple of weeks. So I bought my own (legal). I started with intramuscular injections. This requires a longer needle, and the estrogen is released into the muscles. It has a powerful effect right away but isn't stable. So by the time I took my next injection 2 weeks later, the estradiol in my bloodstream was almost gone. When I finally received my script for my needles, the needle was shorter. So the injection was subcutaneous. What is different with this type of injection as that the estrogen released is more even over 2 weeks (before the next injection). Interesting the syringe/needles my doctor prescribed are so much higher in quality. I am going to follow his path. My breasts are now perky again. And I will let my doctor guide me.    I wish you success on your journey. Let us know how things are proceeding. I am happy for you.   Jennifer 
    • JenniferB
      Patches are the HRT method of least risk. Be aware of your estrogen levels with bloodwork. My doctor took me off patches because my estrogen levels were low. And put me on estradiol valerate injections. I have to say that made a big difference. Be aware of the changes. I don't know your age, or circumstances, but I would research available options of administering hormones.    There are other methods of taking estrogen, and you should research all of them. When my doctor changed my prescription to estradiol valerate amazing things happened. He was slow to prescribe the needles so I ordered them online. I have used injectables before. Getting the nerve to poke myself with the needle was a great hurdle to overcome.   As far as a rollercoaster feeling, I never felt that as much as the excitement of finally starting HRT. That overrode everything. I couldn't focus on how my emotions changed, for excitement trumped all emotions. Let the emotions of starting HRT settle, then make the decisions you feel will best benefit you.    Good luck with your journey,   Jennifer
    • Mmindy
      Welcome back Jennifer    It’s nice to meet you and I look forward to your postings.    Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • KatieSC
      Regarding the candidates...this is the best either side could do since Obama was President? Biden is supportive, but when I see really solid gains, like ensuring that all transition services are covered by all insurance companies, I will believe the support.   I do not think anybody is trying to destroy the country, but with the current polarization, there is no compromise. There is this "you are either with us or against us" mantra being touted. We can moan all we want about Trump and his ilk, but face it: They are very well coordinated on a national level. They currently have a number of states with a super-majority.   What set all of this in motion? I suspect that there is a lot of things that got under the skin of a lot of conservative folks. Some of it our own fault, and some of it not. Make no mistake, we are in trouble. If they successfully ban child and adolescent transition nationally, I suspect we will be next. Now they may not pass a law, but if they eliminate the requirement that insurance companies cover the costs of medications, procedures, and surgeries, there will be fewer folks transitioning. The services may still be available, but it will be a cash only business. There are already a fair number of healthcare providers who will not accept the insurance reimbursement rates. There are a number of folks that will lack the resources. That is how you limit our existence. We will still exist, but it will get much harder.
    • JenniferB
      I talked to my doctor about this. And I was frank. He told me I was in a grey area, and I agree. I scored a 3, but alcohol has not controlled my life. I won't drink when I have obligations. But, when I can relax, I drink sometimes. I can control it. I intentionally don't buy alcohol before I go to work at the hospital. When I get off work I can't buy it. And this is by design.    Do I have an alcohol problem? Yes. Can I control it? Yes. Does AA help? Yes. But I consider myself a borderline alcoholic. And yes I'd love to stop and AA works for this. I found I don't need the 12 steps, attending is enough to stop the craving.
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...