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My First Real Talk About Me


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Guest Bailey

Well, I said I would update ya'll on what is going on. I met with the VA Socal Worker today. She was only an intern, but she was GREAT! We talked for over an hour. I was very nervous at first, but she was not judgemental in any way and really seemed concerned about me. She won't be my actual therapist, she leaves to go back to school in 3 weeks, but she is working to get me in the system and in touch with the right people so that I can get the support I need. Hopefully it will not take too long. I want to start HRT NOW!!!!!!! LOL :P

Anyway, I feel so much better after that talk. I want to start telling everyone, though that is not really practical yet. For now I will just concentrate on learning who I am, getting my body into shape, (lost another 5 lbs last week) and preparing myself for what is to come. Thank you all for the support you have given me. I could not have done it without you. :D

With Love,

Aislinn

P.S. I live in TX right now in Austin. If anyone would like to get together I would love some company. I do not really know anyone here and have absolutely no friends. I have been very isolated since moving here and would like to get out a bit. I am so happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Guest Donna Jean

Wonderful!

So, maybe she isn't the therapist, but she is steering you through the maze that can be the VA. And that's a HUGE start!

It sounds as if you're happy with the outcome of this meeting and ready to seriously get underway....

Good on you, Girlfriend!

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest Girl Emily

Great news!!!

I am so happy you are being treated with respect and compassion. It is a long journey, but one in which you have taken the biggest steps.

Huggs,

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Guest Elizabeth K

I LOVE Austin!!!

Unfortunately I don't live there anymore. They have GREAT used book stores in Austin!

GOOD you had that support - even with an intern. Perhaps it shows of good things to come.

Lizzy

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Great news, Baily. I hope she is successful in getting you all set up.

Good luck, hon, and keep us posted.

Carolyn Marie

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