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there was this elderly woman trying to get in the doors and there was a bunch of people just standing there waiting on her yelling obsenties :o i couldnt belive i mean omg! this lady is like old enough to be ur grandma and ur treating her like that so i ran over and helped her in the door then turned around and like gave the kids a big lecture about treating their elders a kid punched me and was like wheres your parents if this was me i wouldnt be able to sit for a weak i just finaly gave up and went into the store to grab some stuff and helped the elderly lady back out lucky the kids were gone and she was like ohhh thank you sweetheart (griamnce :rolleyes: ) turns out i got a black eye when the kid punched me now hows that fair :angry:

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Guest viv

Hun,,,,you are a true knight in shining armor and you will get your

just rewards . Hope the shiner dont last long . luv,viv :)

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Guest Cricket

I wish there were more people as thoughtful and helpful as you! I would have helped the lady too, but I don't think I'd have been brave enough to lecture those rude kids. I really respect that, that you stood up and did the right thing! I hope your eye heals up very soon.

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, the black eye wasn't fair.....

But, you are a true human being....

Heck with those jerks.....it all comes around!

You the best, Hon!

HUGGGGGGGGGG!

Donna Jean

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Guest lvmyftm

That generation calls everyone "sweet heart", try not to take it as a gendered term. You did a nice thing, feel good about it.

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Guest cael

I do stuff like that all the time.. if I see someone else in trouble or in need of help ill do everything I can to help them out it just kinda ticks me off that I got a shiner lo live been telling people I got in a huge fight with a 20 year old and I kicked his but lol but no one belives me im just too nice lol :P

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Guest cael
That generation calls everyone "sweet heart", try not to take it as a gendered term. You did a nice thing, feel good about it.

i know lol thats why i had this :rolleyes: icon ;)

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Guest Elizabeth K

Badge of honor that black eye! You did good!

Yes - sweetheart is gender neutral where I live. So is Dawlin' and 'Cher' (Cajun meaning sweetheart)

Proud of you!

Lizzy

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Guest My_Genesis

Sometimes when I'm "too nice" to people I get really p'd off b/c karma works against me. Just makes me angry (that's the guy in me lol :D) Don't worry, karma will give those kids black eyes one day... ha.

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Guest thefireship

Augh. I'd have done the same as you. Ain't no way I'd have stood by and watched that happen to an elderly woman or anyone else. (Yeeeeah, I've had a few narrow escapes for butting into situations like these. Nothing ever came to blows though.) I say wear that shiner proudly! I sure would!

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Guest miss kindheart

Dear Loki,

<<hug>>

Whether young or old every woman loves a night in shinning armor.

Sounds like thee surly did a good deed for a damsel in distress.

Give thee a <<kiss>> on the cheek I shall, for thy nobleness.

:wub: vanna

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Guest cael
:huh: who ever said life was fair anyways... its just a shinner i will live but thanks for the support... as for the knight in shinny armor do i have to wear armor... i mean u know... thats kinda hard to walk in lol (jk) :rolleyes:
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Guest MrAwesome

well, this way when people ask you can say "You should see the other guy" and make up a huge story behind wat happened like these guys twice your size were pickin on this old lady...

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Guest Pól
well, this way when people ask you can say "You should see the other guy" and make up a huge story behind wat happened like these guys twice your size were pickin on this old lady...

Lewis! Where have you been?

Also, this is a great way to handle this. Lewis's humour here is spot on. ;)

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Guest StrandedOutThere

You did the right thing, for sure. Older adults deserve some respect!

Also, I had to chuckle at what Lewis said. That joke is always a good way to play off an injury.

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Guest Hoslers_wife

Don't worry bahun. Karma is amazing to those of us who strive to be good people in an upside down world. Kudos to you my dear

Love,

Chelsey Hosler

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